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ever feel like giving up? **edit**

Posted by on May. 4, 2012 at 7:04 PM
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 I do ,  been feeling that way a lot lately.

i am fat,   no matter what i do i can not lose more than a few pounds,  and if i let up at all (and by letting up i mean raising cals to aroudn 1000 a day from 600)  i gain it all back.

i am 43 unmarried and not likely to ever be married.

spent 5 years seeing a man that i thought was it, that i would spend the rest of my life with .  only to found out every aspect of our relationship was a lie. He even married someone else 2 years into our 3 year relationship.

I just want to throw in the towel.    I just dont feel there is and chance of any happily ever after ,   never did  before this man. so i really should have know better.

    call this a confession,   a vent     or call it bullshit,  just felt the need to type it out some where  , where i wont catch a lot of shit from people i know.

 

 ***thanks  to all the understanding people******


"oh look they ate a baby,  how rude"---  Monroe

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couponluv72
by on May. 4, 2012 at 7:11 PM
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You are so not alone. Even being married there are days I wish i could crawl under a rock and give up on everything when the frustrations get to be too much. 

My mom always said that if you stop looking and learn to be happy with yourself , that is when the right mate will come along in to your life. 

proudmommy690
by Ruby Member on May. 4, 2012 at 7:13 PM
i feel like giving up every day.

hugs :(

im trying to talk df into walking/losing weight with me....i had a baby 3 months ago and i still look pregnant :/ i can wear my regular jeans but they're tight. *sigh*
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fairyjester
by on May. 4, 2012 at 7:14 PM

 

Quoting couponluv72:

You are so not alone. Even being married there are days I wish i could crawl under a rock and give up on everything when the frustrations get to be too much. 

My mom always said that if you stop looking and learn to be happy with yourself , that is when the right mate will come along in to your life. 

 um thats kind what got me the man i just wasted 5 years on,   and the shit i wrote about him isnt even the worse

 


"oh look they ate a baby,  how rude"---  Monroe

couponluv72
by on May. 4, 2012 at 7:14 PM


Quoting fairyjester:

 

Quoting couponluv72:

You are so not alone. Even being married there are days I wish i could crawl under a rock and give up on everything when the frustrations get to be too much. 

My mom always said that if you stop looking and learn to be happy with yourself , that is when the right mate will come along in to your life. 

 um thats kind what got me the man i just wasted 5 years on,   and the shit i wrote about him isnt even the worse

 

I am so so so sorry 


    Please do not friend request me. I am not accepting any friend invites. sorry. 

                                                                         im sorry

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on May. 4, 2012 at 7:20 PM

I don't know but I remember seeing you tell a girl with severe social anxiety who needed advice about keeping a job that she needed to grow up, so maybe you need to work on being a nicer person and nice things will actually happen to you

fairyjester
by on May. 4, 2012 at 7:23 PM

 

Quoting Anonymous:

I don't know but I remember seeing you tell a girl with severe social anxiety who needed advice about keeping a job that she needed to grow up, so maybe you need to work on being a nicer person and nice things will actually happen to you

 eh i am 90% or more nice.  

do have a bit of a low tollerance level for stupidity.

 


"oh look they ate a baby,  how rude"---  Monroe

Hilary799
by Gold Member on May. 4, 2012 at 7:25 PM
I'm sorry about how you feel. But if you seriously said that to someone....why would you do that? Because you're unhappy. I don't get it.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on May. 4, 2012 at 7:27 PM

Be able to spell tolerance right before saying you have a low tolerance level for stupidity.

Quoting fairyjester:

 

Quoting Anonymous:

I don't know but I remember seeing you tell a girl with severe social anxiety who needed advice about keeping a job that she needed to grow up, so maybe you need to work on being a nicer person and nice things will actually happen to you

 eh i am 90% or more nice.  

do have a bit of a low tollerance level for stupidity.

 


fairyjester
by on May. 4, 2012 at 7:31 PM

 bitte mi  faat  as

Quoting Anonymous:

Be able to spell tolerance right before saying you have a low tolerance level for stupidity.

Quoting fairyjester:

 

Quoting Anonymous:

I don't know but I remember seeing you tell a girl with severe social anxiety who needed advice about keeping a job that she needed to grow up, so maybe you need to work on being a nicer person and nice things will actually happen to you

 eh i am 90% or more nice.  

do have a bit of a low tollerance level for stupidity.

 

 

 


"oh look they ate a baby,  how rude"---  Monroe

fairyjester
by on May. 4, 2012 at 7:33 PM

 

Quoting Hilary799:

I'm sorry about how you feel. But if you seriously said that to someone....why would you do that? Because you're unhappy. I don't get it.

 she was whining about how she couldnt work because being around people upset her.  

and when she did get a job she would work it for like a week and just stop going , giving no notice

and i still stand by my answer.       sorry i dont buy the i have social issues so  i have to sponge off society


"oh look they ate a baby,  how rude"---  Monroe

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