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ever feel like giving up? **edit**

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 I do ,  been feeling that way a lot lately.

i am fat,   no matter what i do i can not lose more than a few pounds,  and if i let up at all (and by letting up i mean raising cals to aroudn 1000 a day from 600)  i gain it all back.

i am 43 unmarried and not likely to ever be married.

spent 5 years seeing a man that i thought was it, that i would spend the rest of my life with .  only to found out every aspect of our relationship was a lie. He even married someone else 2 years into our 3 year relationship.

I just want to throw in the towel.    I just dont feel there is and chance of any happily ever after ,   never did  before this man. so i really should have know better.

    call this a confession,   a vent     or call it bullshit,  just felt the need to type it out some where  , where i wont catch a lot of shit from people i know.

 

 ***thanks  to all the understanding people******


"oh look they ate a baby,  how rude"---  Monroe

by on May. 4, 2012 at 7:04 PM
Replies (31-40):
fairyjester
by on May. 4, 2012 at 8:48 PM

 

Quoting couponluv72:

dammmmn what the hell blew this up in to drama?

 the this very sweet anon   is  saying what a bad person i am for  telling someone like it is and not kissing their ass.  

kind pots and kettles   LOL


"oh look they ate a baby,  how rude"---  Monroe

Angelicembrace
by The Dorkfish on May. 4, 2012 at 8:49 PM

I'm sorry you're going through this :(. I can relate, I've been feeling like I want to give up too.

*hugs*


momo3fgr8tteens
by Ruby Member on May. 4, 2012 at 8:51 PM

If you give up you won't be any further than you are now. I understand you are lonely. I know a woman who was like you having trouble losing weight and she did some type of medical/doctors weight loss and lost a lot of weight. I have seen a lot of people have success with Weight Watchers because they have people there that can help you. 

ajohnson08099
by *Lyssa Lou* on May. 4, 2012 at 9:10 PM

 Ah yeah. that could do it. I took only one depo shot Sept '10 and I gained about 40 pounds... And i have been unable to lose that weight even though I only had taht one shot.

Quoting fairyjester:

 

Quoting ajohnson08099:

 Um well Idk about the other situation... But you should really see a dr and find out why on a 1k cal diet you are gaining weight. My cousin is anorexic (sp) and she ONLY eats 500-600 cals a day... so... You should really check your health out. On the men. umm idk.. Fix yourself and your health then worry about happily ever after.. because it wont matter if your dead because of your health. gl

 yeah talked to my doctor about it last year , when i was doing a strict 1200 cal diet and working out atleast 1 1/2 6 days a week. (insantiy at lunch, gym after work)   she did bunch of blood work  could not find a reason why.    only thing i did not think to bring up (though its in my med record)  was that i have been on depo for 3 years.     I have never thought it the case because  starting before and during the firs 6 months of the depo i lost 80 pounds   have not been able to lose anythign since and have slowly  gain alot of it back despite constant calorie counting and exercise

 

EmilyMarshall
by on May. 4, 2012 at 9:11 PM
hugs


fairyjester
by on May. 4, 2012 at 9:11 PM

umm errr thanks so its definatley hopless

Quoting ajohnson08099:

 Ah yeah. that could do it. I took only one depo shot Sept '10 and I gained about 40 pounds... And i have been unable to lose that weight even though I only had taht one shot.

Quoting fairyjester:

 

Quoting ajohnson08099:

 Um well Idk about the other situation... But you should really see a dr and find out why on a 1k cal diet you are gaining weight. My cousin is anorexic (sp) and she ONLY eats 500-600 cals a day... so... You should really check your health out. On the men. umm idk.. Fix yourself and your health then worry about happily ever after.. because it wont matter if your dead because of your health. gl

 yeah talked to my doctor about it last year , when i was doing a strict 1200 cal diet and working out atleast 1 1/2 6 days a week. (insantiy at lunch, gym after work)   she did bunch of blood work  could not find a reason why.    only thing i did not think to bring up (though its in my med record)  was that i have been on depo for 3 years.     I have never thought it the case because  starting before and during the firs 6 months of the depo i lost 80 pounds   have not been able to lose anythign since and have slowly  gain alot of it back despite constant calorie counting and exercise

 

 


"oh look they ate a baby,  how rude"---  Monroe

ajohnson08099
by *Lyssa Lou* on May. 4, 2012 at 9:14 PM

 .... no.... it means its worth mentioning. I haven't asked my dr so didn't say it was hopeless... Saying that could be a cause.... It means if you are still taking the shot.... Um the stop.

Quoting fairyjester:

umm errr thanks so its definatley hopless

Quoting ajohnson08099:

 Ah yeah. that could do it. I took only one depo shot Sept '10 and I gained about 40 pounds... And i have been unable to lose that weight even though I only had taht one shot.

Quoting fairyjester:

 

Quoting ajohnson08099:

 Um well Idk about the other situation... But you should really see a dr and find out why on a 1k cal diet you are gaining weight. My cousin is anorexic (sp) and she ONLY eats 500-600 cals a day... so... You should really check your health out. On the men. umm idk.. Fix yourself and your health then worry about happily ever after.. because it wont matter if your dead because of your health. gl

 yeah talked to my doctor about it last year , when i was doing a strict 1200 cal diet and working out atleast 1 1/2 6 days a week. (insantiy at lunch, gym after work)   she did bunch of blood work  could not find a reason why.    only thing i did not think to bring up (though its in my med record)  was that i have been on depo for 3 years.     I have never thought it the case because  starting before and during the firs 6 months of the depo i lost 80 pounds   have not been able to lose anythign since and have slowly  gain alot of it back despite constant calorie counting and exercise

 

 

 

fairyjester
by on May. 4, 2012 at 9:22 PM

 actually i am stoping the shot as of now as  i have no reason to worry about controlling birth.    don't know if that will even help after 3 years.     put i imagine i will keep plugging along.  would like to look better in my dance costume. or atleat be able to move better

Quoting ajohnson08099:

 .... no.... it means its worth mentioning. I haven't asked my dr so didn't say it was hopeless... Saying that could be a cause.... It means if you are still taking the shot.... Um the stop.

Quoting fairyjester:

umm errr thanks so its definatley hopless

Quoting ajohnson08099:

 Ah yeah. that could do it. I took only one depo shot Sept '10 and I gained about 40 pounds... And i have been unable to lose that weight even though I only had taht one shot.

Quoting fairyjester:

 

Quoting ajohnson08099:

 Um well Idk about the other situation... But you should really see a dr and find out why on a 1k cal diet you are gaining weight. My cousin is anorexic (sp) and she ONLY eats 500-600 cals a day... so... You should really check your health out. On the men. umm idk.. Fix yourself and your health then worry about happily ever after.. because it wont matter if your dead because of your health. gl

 yeah talked to my doctor about it last year , when i was doing a strict 1200 cal diet and working out atleast 1 1/2 6 days a week. (insantiy at lunch, gym after work)   she did bunch of blood work  could not find a reason why.    only thing i did not think to bring up (though its in my med record)  was that i have been on depo for 3 years.     I have never thought it the case because  starting before and during the firs 6 months of the depo i lost 80 pounds   have not been able to lose anythign since and have slowly  gain alot of it back despite constant calorie counting and exercise

 

 

 

 


"oh look they ate a baby,  how rude"---  Monroe

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on May. 4, 2012 at 9:31 PM
You're 43 and you're stripper?


Quoting fairyjester:

 actually i am stoping the shot as of now as  i have no reason to worry about controlling birth.    don't know if that will even help after 3 years.     put i imagine i will keep plugging along.  would like to look better in my dance costume. or atleat be able to move better


Quoting ajohnson08099:


 .... no.... it means its worth mentioning. I haven't asked my dr so didn't say it was hopeless... Saying that could be a cause.... It means if you are still taking the shot.... Um the stop.


Quoting fairyjester:


umm errr thanks so its definatley hopless


Quoting ajohnson08099:


 Ah yeah. that could do it. I took only one depo shot Sept '10 and I gained about 40 pounds... And i have been unable to lose that weight even though I only had taht one shot.


Quoting fairyjester:


 


Quoting ajohnson08099:


 Um well Idk about the other situation... But you should really see a dr and find out why on a 1k cal diet you are gaining weight. My cousin is anorexic (sp) and she ONLY eats 500-600 cals a day... so... You should really check your health out. On the men. umm idk.. Fix yourself and your health then worry about happily ever after.. because it wont matter if your dead because of your health. gl


 yeah talked to my doctor about it last year , when i was doing a strict 1200 cal diet and working out atleast 1 1/2 6 days a week. (insantiy at lunch, gym after work)   she did bunch of blood work  could not find a reason why.    only thing i did not think to bring up (though its in my med record)  was that i have been on depo for 3 years.     I have never thought it the case because  starting before and during the firs 6 months of the depo i lost 80 pounds   have not been able to lose anythign since and have slowly  gain alot of it back despite constant calorie counting and exercise


 


 


 


 


fairyjester
by on May. 4, 2012 at 9:37 PM

 lol   yeah right with this body,  besides have you watch strippers??? have you seen the heals they wear ,  i dont have good enought health insurence to even try that.

no i bellydance

Quoting Anonymous:

You're 43 and you're stripper?


Quoting fairyjester:

 actually i am stoping the shot as of now as  i have no reason to worry about controlling birth.    don't know if that will even help after 3 years.     put i imagine i will keep plugging along.  would like to look better in my dance costume. or atleat be able to move better


Quoting ajohnson08099:


 .... no.... it means its worth mentioning. I haven't asked my dr so didn't say it was hopeless... Saying that could be a cause.... It means if you are still taking the shot.... Um the stop.


Quoting fairyjester:


umm errr thanks so its definatley hopless


Quoting ajohnson08099:


 Ah yeah. that could do it. I took only one depo shot Sept '10 and I gained about 40 pounds... And i have been unable to lose that weight even though I only had taht one shot.


Quoting fairyjester:


 


Quoting ajohnson08099:


 Um well Idk about the other situation... But you should really see a dr and find out why on a 1k cal diet you are gaining weight. My cousin is anorexic (sp) and she ONLY eats 500-600 cals a day... so... You should really check your health out. On the men. umm idk.. Fix yourself and your health then worry about happily ever after.. because it wont matter if your dead because of your health. gl


 yeah talked to my doctor about it last year , when i was doing a strict 1200 cal diet and working out atleast 1 1/2 6 days a week. (insantiy at lunch, gym after work)   she did bunch of blood work  could not find a reason why.    only thing i did not think to bring up (though its in my med record)  was that i have been on depo for 3 years.     I have never thought it the case because  starting before and during the firs 6 months of the depo i lost 80 pounds   have not been able to lose anythign since and have slowly  gain alot of it back despite constant calorie counting and exercise


 


 


 


 


 


"oh look they ate a baby,  how rude"---  Monroe

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