It bothers me when my dh see's my daughters girly bits.
Let me start out with, I trust my DH, and I know he isn't a pedophile, and doesn't look at or think about her girly bits that way.
But the way i was raised my dad was never allowed to change diapers or be in the bath ( he wasn't a weirdo either, just the way my mom was also raised.)
everytime she poops it gets all in her girly bits, which i have to spread apart and clean out, and it just weirds me out for him to stand there, holding her legs for me ( she has blow outs, so one holds the legs, while the other wipes it off) watching to make sure i get it all out.
I don't know why on earth it bothers me so much, but it does, to the point i try really hard to cover it with the wipe while i am cleaning it.
I am TERRIFIED of anything bad or emotionally damaging happening to her, and i am suffering from PPD, and PPA, do you think this could be causing it?
I also don't like my MIL changing her either, but it bothers me slightly less than DH seeing her stuff.
I hate it, and i wish i could just feel normal, there is nothing weird about a dad bathing his child or changing his child and i can't understand why it makes me feel so uncomfortable.
it is so irrational.
has anyone else felt this way?