Want to call CPS on my mom... * very graphic proceed with caution*
My mother divorce my crackhead and abusive father when I was 9. He would tell me to go find his " medicine" aka his drugs for him when I was around 8 years old. I saw him beat my mother in front to me a handful of times. When they got the divorce my mom started being verbally and physically abusive. I got beat for everything and anything where as my sibling who are younger( middle child is a girl 'J' and youngest a boy 'C') were never touched unless they did something horrid. my siblings and I went to move in with my maternal grandma for that year. My mother married a dickwad when I was 10. From age 10 to 14 he molested me. He stuck his tongue in my mouth, fondled my breasts, try to run in the bathroom when I was showering, unlock my door in the middle of the night just to stand there and watch, almost raped me, etc. he never laid a hand on my siblings. I was too terrified to tell when in the beginning, but when I did she didn't believe me. She continued to live with him for a few month and I moved 18 hours away at 14. I have been on my own since then. I have my fair share of a fucked up past and do not deny it but I am the best person I can be now. I talked to her about once a year and tried to visit siblings as often as I could. I started talking to her on a monthly basis since i was pregnant. DD is now 2 turning 3 in 5 months. She is a great grandmother, but terrible mother. DD is never with her unsupervised. She married a man last year. He is the father I have never had. A great man and great grandfather to my DD.
Now on to the present. Even with this great man my mom fucks up. She is verbally abusive to siblings at home. J is 19 and C is 14. C is talking about getting his life over with. She goes out and drinks every single weekend. She leaves the same food for 4 days for them to eat. Fridge is never stocked unless she has company over. This has been getting a little better, but not much. J will be off to college in August and C is still in high school. J can move out so I'm not too worried about her, but C is stuck in the house with her crazy ass. I want to talk my mom not giving me legal guardianship of C so he can come live with me for his mental saneness since I am financially capable to do so now. If she doesn't I will call CPS on her and hope they do something. How can I bring up the subject to do so ? If I can CPS will they let me have him or will they send him to a foster home ? DH and I have a 4 bedroom home so there is plenty of space. Any advice in this situation is very much appreciated.