Seeing my neighbor cheat on her husband really makes me wonder...
My husband's in the Army, so are all of my neighbors since we live on base.
I have this one neighbor, she lives behind me but comes onto my street all the time since she's friends with my other neighbors. Her husband is deployed to Afghanistan right now. For the 2nd time in 2 weeks, I have witnessed her cheating on him. She's over at my other neighbor's house right now, on the driveway making out with some guy.
It just disgusts me really. I mean, doesn't anyone take their vows seriously anymore? I've never cheated on my husband, never cheated on any of my exes either. Yes I've been cheated on, every boyfriend I had cheated on me. DH is the only one who never has and I believe in my heart that he never will. I am 100% committed to my DH. And when I was in high school and just dating someone, I was committed to him too. I never so much as hugged a male friend while I was dating someone in high school. And even now after having been with my husband for 6 years, I still feel uncomfortable when my best friend's husband greets me with a hug..like it just feels wrong even though it's just an innocent hug. But you get what I'm saying I hope.
***And yes, I know there are some couples out there who have "open" marriages and don't see it as cheating. My neighbor and her husband could have an open marriage, I don't know them THAT well, but it just doesn't sit right with me. To see a married woman making out and holding hands with another man while her husband is deployed just makes my blood boil.
*****I AM staying out of it. I have no intentions of telling her husband or anything like that. It's not my place. My point was I don't understand how people can do that to their spouses. Not about whether or not I should tell the husband.