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I'm sleeping with my best friend's husband.

Anonymous
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Ask me anything.


Posted by Anonymous on May. 5, 2012 at 2:39 PM
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by Anonymous on May. 5, 2012 at 7:13 PM
What about all the other questions?


Quoting Anonymous:

I can't get pregnant. 

Quoting Anonymous:

and if she does find out... or you get pregnant? Then what? You're prepared to be at least partially responsible for ending their marriage? And you're not going to feel bad about hurting your friend that way?





Quoting Anonymous:

Bc it makes me happy, and him. Its just about the sex, nothing else. I have no romantic feelings for him. As long as she doesn't find out, it will never hurt her.

Quoting Wintersdawn:

Why? How can you call her your best friend?






Anonymous
by Anonymous on May. 5, 2012 at 7:21 PM
So, lets say your hubby started effing someone else. Would you still feel this way? Or would you be hurt by it?
Dont be so quick to say they wont find out, or that your husband wouldnt betray you like you have him.

Quoting Anonymous:

I know I should, but I don't. **shrug** No one knows. No one is hurt by it. What is there to feel bad about? Me and her get along just like we always have, and both of our marriages are still in tact.

I remember an article somewhere that said having a affair can save someone's marriage. Honestly, I feel like in a weird way it has helped our marriages. We are getting the attention we need, and we are happier for it. Believe it or not, our marriages have begun to benefit from it. Soon, we will end it and no one will be the wiser.

Seriously if no one knows, what is the harm? If no one EVER finds out? There isn't any harm in a fling.

Quoting Snapdragon88:

You should feel like shit right now.



Quoting Anonymous:

The affair won't last forever. We don't sleep with each other everyday or even once a week. I've slept with him 4 times in about 3 months. Just when the oppurtunity arrises. She won't find out. But no, it wouldn't have been worth it if she did. I would feel like shit.

Quoting Wintersdawn:

And its ridiculous to think she wont. Whats ur plan if she does? Would it have been worth it?





Quoting Anonymous:

Bc it makes me happy, and him. Its just about the sex, nothing else. I have no romantic feelings for him. As long as she doesn't find out, it will never hurt her.

Quoting Wintersdawn:

Why? How can you call her your best friend?




Anonymous
by Anonymous on May. 5, 2012 at 7:28 PM
If my friend slept w my man the bitch and him.would be DONE n out my life...
Goofygadget
by on May. 5, 2012 at 7:35 PM
It doesnt make any difference if she finds out. Still a shitty "friend". I love it when people say that it will only hurt if the victim finds out while still claiming to care and be friends. A good friend protects. A good friend tells you if your hubby is cheating.

Op. Would you tell her if he was fucking some random chick? This isnt about protecting her feelings you selfish whore.


Quoting Wintersdawn:

And its ridiculous to think she wont. Whats ur plan if she does? Would it have been worth it?



Quoting Anonymous:

Bc it makes me happy, and him. Its just about the sex, nothing else. I have no romantic feelings for him. As long as she doesn't find out, it will never hurt her.

Quoting Wintersdawn:

Why? How can you call her your best friend?



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Goofygadget
by on May. 5, 2012 at 7:38 PM
Im also honostly surprized that you think 4 fucks in three months is helping his marriage....delusional..
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TamDom12
by on May. 5, 2012 at 7:40 PM

Wow!!! How could you bring yourself to do something like that? What will you do when she finds out? Like they say whats done in the dark comes to light. I do hope your prepared for the consequences of your actions.

MrsImperfect
by on May. 5, 2012 at 7:42 PM
You just want attention
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sunfireprincess
by on May. 5, 2012 at 7:45 PM
Jackass
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merimack
by on May. 5, 2012 at 7:45 PM
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Quoting activitymode:

Does he have a big dick?

LOL

Anonymous
by Anonymous on May. 5, 2012 at 7:47 PM
dont need to as i have done the same thing before.
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