So I keep getting into this fight with my husband. I am a stay at home mom of a 6 yr old and an 11 month old, and every now and then I need a break. My husband doesn't help with the kids without being asked, even then the response is usually "why can't you do it?". He comes and goes as he pleases to activities with friends, sports practice for two hours, then 4 hours at the bar after that twice a week, and games with 6+ hours at the bar after that on saturdays. If I want time to myself I literally have to beg him even just to go lay back down for an hour and have him sit and mind the kids. Apparently, in his words "you don't get to ask for time to yourself, what do you think you do all day long? That is time to yourself". Really?