so I was doing some school related things for my oldest and ended up outside the school talking to a close friend. as we were talking we see my ex carry my other child(Its his week) into the school, my son is three... why is he taking him into the school...
me being nosy, and having an idea that he might be taking him to the dentist, causes me to go investigate. (the children's dental program is run out of the school) so I make my way over to the dental office and knock on the door... clearly surprising my ex.
we "separated" on bad terms... meaning I dumped his abusive ass....
I only intended on asking for an email, requesting information about the dental work he needed (having already gotten a referral for the dentist from my dentist and knowing about his cavities). well the dentist obviously knew that I was the better one to talk to about the childs dental needs because we totally ignored my ex and talked as though I was the one that brought him.
this clearly upset my ex... he had that I'm going to harm you look on his face. but he couldn't because others would see and he would get his ass thrown in jail. hahaha (go me!)
so I take over the appointment and make arrangements to have the teeth fixed, while DS is with me... all the while being all "nicey-nice pretend we are friends" with my ex... and he could do nothing other than be quiet because he is incapable of being nice to me.
ahhh, one upping an ex feels great.
but now to point out why I feel my ex was an idiot. Does he really think he can just take my child to the dentist and not get my consent... I am his parent and this is a major no-no according to the court order.
and who in the hell carries a perfectly capable three year old around as though they are a baby.....?
I am not name calling my ex in a BAD way, but in an exasperated way. this man does it all the time to me, and HE IS COURT ORDERED TO INFORM ME OF ANY MEDICAL AND DENTAL WORK THAT GETS DONE TO DS BEFORE IT HAPPENS. Hence the "idiot" comment. as for the haters about me complaining about him carrying my son, yes it is an issue. I have three kids, including an infant, I cannot carry my 3 year old every where. my ex is encouraging the kid to be lazy... and it effects DSs attitude when he is with me.
on May. 6, 2012 at 5:14 AM