He kept leaving the house and wouldnt answer his phone and she would 'coincidentally be the same places as him... there were just too many coincidences. The day after I moved out he took our kids bowling with her. "but they were just friends" Hmm thats why they live together now.
Hubs told me during a disagreement.
His phone rang and he wouldn't answer it in front of me. When I asked to see who it was, he wouldn't show me. Then it came out.
I was blindsided. I was having anxiety attacks a few weeks before and I think my mind was trying to tell me something.
He kept sleeping with me and telling me he loved me while he was cheating which is one of the reasons it came as a shock. I have read that some cheaters become more interested in sex and other less.
For me some of the signs that I should have been paying attention to were him being increasingly critical of small things that I did and him losing weight and paying more attention to his appearance.
Quoting Anonymous:In what way, if any did it effect your sex life... while he/she was cheating?
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