To go to hell. I'm sick of her bringing over all this "snack food" that her kids are suppose to keep in their room (because god forbid one of us eat some of it). I buy snacks every week along with real food that I feed the family with. I also buy food that I like to take to work because I'm pregnant and I eat small meals/snacks all day. I feel like, since I buy food for the family that if she really wanted to help out she would bring over items that could help out with brakefast, lunch, and dinner. Instead she brings over pistachios and beef jerky, soda, artificial sushi and a bunch of other expensive crap that we are not allowed to eat. I feel like since her son has no self control and killed my 6$ bag of pistachios in one day, she could atleast share. I don't hoard food in my room but whenever I go to get a green apple that I bought, I should fucking have one...considering I buy enough for everyone. I'm not going to be like "don't eat this or that" to the kids because I'm not like that...but here lately it's like they eat everything in sight and when she brings stuff over they are told to hide it. She gets foodstamps and we don't. I spend $200 a week at the grocery store of my hard earned money only to not have it last all week. The least she can do is contribute some meat to put in the oven. This is eating into my savings that I have set aside for when I go into maternity leave. Oh and did I forget to mention that if I ask them to help around the house she says that they are not here to clean. I am 33 weeks and can barely bend enough to put my own damn pants on. My belly is so big that I can't stand at the sink for 20 minutes and wash dishes that I don't even dirty cause I'm at work from 9-7 every day of the week. I'm starting to feel like she thinks me and DSD are suppose to be their slaves. Not happening!!! I am just itching to cuss her out but DH says I have to be the bigger person. I'm just over it...all of it. And I feel like if her boys are too good to contribute to the running of this household then maybe she should get her own fucking house and wait on them. It's not like they r children...they are 14 and 19. Stop setting them up for failure.
EDIT- I keep getting comments from people thinking I let that bitch move in my house. NOOOOO!!!! I would never let an ex move in with us...I dont care how tired, poor, or hungry she is, I might feed her cause I cant stand a bitch to go hungry but I repeat---The EX did not move in. Just DH SON and the ex's other boy.