Ok so I'm fat I'm 6 foot and 220lbs. I'm in a controlling relationship and he basically forces me to eat when he is home. M-f he works till 3 and he's with me on the weekends. We eat healthy. He wont let me join a gym and he gets really mad if I even try to leave the house to go for a walk. He controls everything but this maybe the one thing i can control. Please don't tell me to leave because I'm not going to. My hope is that once I lose some weight I will have more self confidence and I will want to leave. Please I need ideas
No bashing please
this has been going on for 7 years it progressively got worse over the years. I'm now a stay at home mom that pretty much doesn't doesn't argue just goes along with whatever he wants. I don't get to go anywhere or do anything alone. I don't get $. I'm not allowed to talk to anyone about anything. I'm not upset about it anymore.