I have been dating this guy for almost a year now.
Lately our "relationship" has been mostly talking on the phone. In March he started a second job and works the 1st job from 630 am 230p and then starts the 2nd job at 330p and gets off at 930p. He calls me everyday while he is driving from job 1 to job 2, several times during the night, and then again on his drive home after job 2. He is a single father, he has custody of his 14 yr old son so on the weekends, he always seems to have something to do. I have not physically seen him in about 3 months.
So last week, I told him that I wanted to go see the Avengers so he needs to make some way to find time to take me. He agreed and we made plans to go see it yesterday.
Well, yesterday came and he calls me to tell me that his nephew had a basketball game that was an hour away and his parents wanted to go to the game so he had to drive them because neither one of them drives long distances, so we wouldn't be able to go to the show.
That is just one example. When I try to see him, it's always something. Something always comes up. I'm at the point where I just ready to walk away. He tells me that I just need to be patient. That he is just working the 2nd job for the moment and he'll have more time soon. He tells me that if he didn't care about me, then he wouldn't bother to call me everyday, at least 5 times a day. Let me add that we have not slept together, yet.
But I am of the mind that if someone REALLY wants to see you, then they will make a way. No excuses andno broken promises. But now I feel like I'm being a bitch because it's not like he's out clubbing, he working and doing things with or for his family. But what about me? Where do I fit in in the equation? Like how long does he expect me to be patient?
So lately our relationship consists of 5-6 phone calls a day, a few dirty texts, and dirty pictures. Now while that is cool, I want more.
So am I delusional and just being a bitch? Or does this sound like a guy that really doesn't want to be in a relationship and I should just move on?