Tell me what you think of this dad..

[Anonymous]

He has his kids at least one night a weekend and both nights every other weekend. He is the coach of his sons baseball team. He tries to get them as often as possible during the week. He buys them whatever they want. Gives their mom however much money she needs/wants for them every time she asks for it . He pays her car payment and cell phone bill.

After all this the mother is trying to say that he is a shitty dad and that just Bc he coaches and gives them money and keeps them only makes him a dad 10% of the time. I feel like she is using these kids as a pawn in her little game. Wtf????

I think she is being very immature IMHO.

[anon1986East]

He sounds like a great dad. It sounds like she wants to play the victim, I know several women like that. Such as one of my cousins, her son is 9 years old and has never met his bio dad. She is married to a great guy who wants to adopt her son, she could easily go to court and have the bio dad's rights terminated especially when she gets less than $50 A MONTH for child support (the state can only take a certain percentage of his pay check and that gets split amongst all his kids whose mothers he is no longer with, last count was 7 kids with 3 women) but I think she enjoys playing the spurned ex, I think she enjoys having something to bitch about. 

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

Agreed..except I akways say there are 3 sIdes to a story, his, hers, and the truth.

Quoting gum.drop:

There are two sides to every story :)

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

She is in college so she doesn't work.

Quoting misslady80013:

He sounds like he is doing a great job! She is being a lazy b*tch! Why can't she pay her own car note? Also, why would she give a hard time to the person doing it for her?! That makes no sense to me?

[Kenre]

Can I have him? My ex sucks!

[MrsRinehart2010]

she sounds like a gold digger  and he sounds like a good guy getting taken advantage of unless we are missing some thing or things no one knows?

[misslady80013]

Ok, then she isn't lazy, my bad for not asking but that's even more reason to not be bitching in my honest opinion.

Quoting Anonymous:

She is in college so she doesn't work.

Quoting misslady80013:

He sounds like he is doing a great job! She is being a lazy b*tch! Why can't she pay her own car note? Also, why would she give a hard time to the person doing it for her?! That makes no sense to me?

[Anonymous]

He sounds like a good dad. My husband pays child support and never misses visitation yet BM tells everyone he is a deadbeat and has nothing to do with his kid. Some women just like to bitch.

[gum.drop]

Even better :)

Quoting Anonymous:

Agreed..except I akways say there are 3 sIdes to a story, his, hers, and the truth.

Quoting gum.drop:

There are two sides to every story :)

[soon2bemomof307]

He sounds like a great Dad. She sounds like a greedy bitch.

[Anonymous]

Stay out of your friend's biz, then.  You're getting one side of the story, probably.  Take it from a momma who's been thrown under the bus by an exaggerating exh.

Quoting Anonymous:

Haha not my SO...I am married. These are friends of ours, but thanks for snarky comment anyways!

Quoting Anonymous:

I think you should stay out of your SO's business....