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Never getting married.

Anonymous
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Nope, never getting married. As much as I love the guy I'm with who doubles as the father of my children. I don't trust him nor anyone else. I don't want to feel contractually obligated to either stay with him or go through a sticky divorce should he do more stupid things.

Am I weird?
Posted by Anonymous on May. 7, 2012 at 7:03 AM
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jshalas89
by Jordan's Mom on May. 7, 2012 at 7:04 AM
No, you're smart.
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TheMrs407
by Ruby Member on May. 7, 2012 at 7:04 AM

I don't think you are weird for never wanting to get married.  I do think your reasoning is weird.  Honestly if I couldn't trust anyone I think I would seek counseling or something.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on May. 7, 2012 at 7:07 AM
No your reasons are though
LoveMyLos
by on May. 7, 2012 at 7:09 AM

youre weird for being with a guy who say you love, then in the same you say you don't trust him.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on May. 7, 2012 at 7:09 AM
Why are you with someone you don't trust? If you don't trust him or anyone else maybe you should go to counseling to work out your trust issues.
RhondaVeggie
by on May. 7, 2012 at 7:13 AM
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Living with a guy and having kids with him when you don't trust him is weird. If you did actually love him you wouldn't have an issue with marrying him becuse you'd want to stay with him forever. the fact that you say you could never marry anyone because you don't trust anyone is a sign that you need therapy.
lovelove211
by Platinum Member on May. 7, 2012 at 7:14 AM
No but are you sure he's the guy for you?
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kmorales7690
by Platinum Member on May. 7, 2012 at 7:16 AM
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You realize that being with someone you can't trust is pointless right? As well as having children with him? I don't see how you can't trust him with yourself but you can trust him to be a good father?
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Meand5
by Silver Member on May. 7, 2012 at 7:16 AM
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No not weird but I wouldn't say never...All men are not the same and I believe in the whole there is someone out there for everyone

Anonymous
by Anonymous on May. 7, 2012 at 7:17 AM
Im never getting married either
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