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Spin off because it p*****ses me off (with edit in red)Edit 2 in blue

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When your husband, SO, DF or whatever cheats on you  IT'S HIS FAULT!!!!!!!!!  The "other woman" is can't be called a homewrecker becuase it wasn't her home to wreck, IT WAS HIS!!!!!    He's your husband, SHE'S NOT!!    Blame the one who can't keep it in his pants and stop trying to cause drama by blaming the woman he slept with.  AARRRGGHHH!!!!

that's my vent, don't care if you bash, that's my opinion

Of course the other woman is a slut and a skank, and should be ashamed of herself.  But she's not the one in the relationship.  and if she knew than yeah i'd hate her guts but she's not the one who made vows or was in a committed relationship. 

alright ladies, i admit i've never been in the situation before but i'm sick of friends blaming the other woman so she can forgive her df, i'm sick of hearing about the nasty things you put on your fb page about the other woman.  I hate hearing what a wonderful f***king guy he is and he was just SEDUCED by the evil homewrecking tramp.  he was tricked into it  bullshit.  he made a committment!!!  he made the mistake!!!!!!!!!!   just admit that the wonderful guy you thought you had and that you bragged all the time about isnt so EFFFINNNGG PERFECT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted by Anonymous on May. 7, 2012 at 11:47 AM
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Livigirlsmom322
by Bronze Member on May. 8, 2012 at 12:00 PM

 I have never had this happen to me but I would blame them both. We live in a very small town so everyone know everyones business.

HIJKLM
by Ruby Member on May. 8, 2012 at 12:03 PM
Lol. When my ex cheated I forgave her and not him but he also lie to her about our relationship status and when she found out she came to me. I get your point though. He's the one with the responsibility to the family, not her.
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MrsImperfect
by on May. 8, 2012 at 12:05 PM
Their both in the wrong. He is to blame cause he ruined your relationship.
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OregonNative
by on May. 8, 2012 at 12:06 PM
I think they're both assholes, equally. I would blame the "other woman" and excuse my SO. They're both at fault and they're bothe skanky whores.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on May. 8, 2012 at 12:07 PM

Actually the other woman is a moot point. She made no vow of partnership in marriage or anything to anybody. Is it wrong to sleep with a married man? Yes, but she is not breaking any promises she made. Your husband on the other hand is willingly going out seeking another women ( don't tell me she through open her vagina and his dick fell in.) Don't say she came on to him yada yada yada...because what it all comes down to..is if he was a solid good man who believed in his promise to you the thought no matter what was in front of him would never cross his mind.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on May. 8, 2012 at 12:40 PM
Gotchya.

Quoting Anonymous:

that was my reply to someone saying that the woman knew he was marrried, than yeah, she's a slut and a skank but he's still my prob, not her


Quoting Anonymous:

" Of course the other woman is a slut and a skank, and should be ashamed of herself. But she's not the one in the relationship."


Your right you didnt you lumped everyone in one catagory.


Quoting Anonymous:


i agree with you, i never said anything about if a woman didn't know he was married. 



Quoting Anonymous:

I disagree. She isnt always a slut nor a homewrecker I dated a guy for months and never knew he was married. When I did find out we,were done I was pissed and I endded things. Its only when she knows he is married is she a slut.


 



Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on May. 8, 2012 at 1:53 PM

That is exactly my point.  Thank you!!!!!!!!!

Quoting Anonymous:

Actually the other woman is a moot point. She made no vow of partnership in marriage or anything to anybody. Is it wrong to sleep with a married man? Yes, but she is not breaking any promises she made. Your husband on the other hand is willingly going out seeking another women ( don't tell me she through open her vagina and his dick fell in.) Don't say she came on to him yada yada yada...because what it all comes down to..is if he was a solid good man who believed in his promise to you the thought no matter what was in front of him would never cross his mind.


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