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Spin off because it p*****ses me off (with edit in red)Edit 2 in blue

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When your husband, SO, DF or whatever cheats on you  IT'S HIS FAULT!!!!!!!!!  The "other woman" is can't be called a homewrecker becuase it wasn't her home to wreck, IT WAS HIS!!!!!    He's your husband, SHE'S NOT!!    Blame the one who can't keep it in his pants and stop trying to cause drama by blaming the woman he slept with.  AARRRGGHHH!!!!

that's my vent, don't care if you bash, that's my opinion

Of course the other woman is a slut and a skank, and should be ashamed of herself.  But she's not the one in the relationship.  and if she knew than yeah i'd hate her guts but she's not the one who made vows or was in a committed relationship. 

alright ladies, i admit i've never been in the situation before but i'm sick of friends blaming the other woman so she can forgive her df, i'm sick of hearing about the nasty things you put on your fb page about the other woman.  I hate hearing what a wonderful f***king guy he is and he was just SEDUCED by the evil homewrecking tramp.  he was tricked into it  bullshit.  he made a committment!!!  he made the mistake!!!!!!!!!!   just admit that the wonderful guy you thought you had and that you bragged all the time about isnt so EFFFINNNGG PERFECT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted by Anonymous on May. 7, 2012 at 11:47 AM
Replies (161-170):
Bethsunshine
by Emerald Member on May. 7, 2012 at 4:14 PM

It takes two to tango!!! Both are equally to blame.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on May. 7, 2012 at 4:18 PM

obviously he got worse since you married him.  i would never take back a cheater!!! and i told my df that at the very beginning of the relationship.  don't cheat on me, i'd rather you just tell me that you're done with me and don't hit me, you hit me once and it's the last time.  some things i wouldn't forgive.

Quoting LizzieAnnesMom:

 She knew he was taken. She shouldnt have pursued him. I sent the chick who cheated with my now DH a scathing letter, No I dont regret it. made me feel better. But you best believe he got A LOT worse.

Quoting Anonymous:

oh i can hate her as well, i'm saying don't cause drama with her via facebook, twitter stuff like that.  lay the blame where it should be and that's with him. he was the one in a relationship he should have taken your feelings into consideration.  he's at fault for ruining your relationship she's just the one that said yes.

Quoting LizzieAnnesMom:

 I can be pissed off at him and hate her as well. Its not difficult.

Quoting Anonymous:

It's not just posts here, it's everywhere.  it's always the drama of women hating women when it's the man who she should get pissed at. yeah she should be ashamed and will have to live with her choices but she doesn't concern me, HE does.

Quoting LizzieAnnesMom:

 Then why open the posts?

Quoting Anonymous:

I've never screwed a married man.  I never would.  My df is the only man i've ever been with.  this topic just bugs me.

Quoting LizzieAnnesMom:

 That is usually what all the home wreckers say. So did you screw the married man?

Oh and BTW, if she knows he is married, she could have kept her legs closed. She is at fault as well.

 

 

 

 

 

 


emsmom627
by Bronze Member on May. 7, 2012 at 4:18 PM

what would you think of her if you were in that situation? 

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on May. 7, 2012 at 4:20 PM

I would hate her guts!!  she's the one he cheated with, however he would be the one feeling my wrath, not her.  he's the one who broke us up, not her.  he's the one who was committed and didn't care, he's the one with a family that he didn't think about, he's the one who could have walked away. 

Quoting emsmom627:

what would you think of her if you were in that situation? 


Anonymous
by Anonymous on May. 7, 2012 at 4:20 PM
Unless the shoe has been on the other foot... don't judge or act like you know how it feels.
Grumpylilpixy
by on May. 7, 2012 at 4:20 PM

I never blamed the other woman but I did make him pay and prove I was who he wanted to be with there was no way in hell I was going to chase him, he made his bed and damn it he was going to lay in it.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on May. 7, 2012 at 4:22 PM

i'm just sick of the drama. my friend called me at work to tell me what a wonderful man her df is and in the same breath she said something about "the whore"   he's not that wonderful, he cheated on you!!!

Quoting Anonymous:

Unless the shoe has been on the other foot... don't judge or act like you know how it feels.


emsmom627
by Bronze Member on May. 7, 2012 at 4:23 PM

sounds like you can be the better person than.  good for you.  if someone knew my husband was married with a baby and slept with him anyway you can bet she will find me on her doorstep. 

Quoting Anonymous:

I would hate her guts!!  she's the one he cheated with, however he would be the one feeling my wrath, not her.  he's the one who broke us up, not her.  he's the one who was committed and didn't care, he's the one with a family that he didn't think about, he's the one who could have walked away. 

Quoting emsmom627:

what would you think of her if you were in that situation? 

 


priincessz
by Silver Member on May. 7, 2012 at 4:24 PM
They're both skanks. It depends if the woman wasn't aware of the man she was sleepIng with was married or not then you can only blame the man.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on May. 7, 2012 at 4:28 PM

but how is it her fault?  he's the one in the committed relationship. like someone above said, "if he doesn't respect your relatioship, why should anyone else?"  even if she knew, she's a skank and a whore but he's still to blame for the relationship ending

Quoting emsmom627:

sounds like you can be the better person than.  good for you.  if someone knew my husband was married with a baby and slept with him anyway you can bet she will find me on her doorstep. 

Quoting Anonymous:

I would hate her guts!!  she's the one he cheated with, however he would be the one feeling my wrath, not her.  he's the one who broke us up, not her.  he's the one who was committed and didn't care, he's the one with a family that he didn't think about, he's the one who could have walked away. 

Quoting emsmom627:

what would you think of her if you were in that situation? 

 

 


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