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Troubling trusting DH with kids...

Anonymous
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Just wondering if any other moms out there have trouble trusting their SO with kids?
A couple of years ago our DD was 2, I had just started clinical portions of completing my nursing degree and was having to be out of the house by 5:30 AM so it was up to dad to get DD to daycare. When I arrived home from school (appx 3 PM) I was headed to my bedroom and heard something in my DD bedroom and thought someone had broken in. Them only toy horror realized my daughter was still in her crib, soaked with urine, I could tell he had been crying and I LOST IT! I was sooo angry at my DH. He has a job that doesn't allow him phone calls so it was late that night before I was able to talk to him so I had some time to calm down but I was so mad, I was ready to leave him. He felt horrible about it and it has been the only time I've ever seen him cry. But I have trouble trusting him now. We have 2 kids now and I am constantly reminding him to do everything, he gets frustrated that I do, but I just can't forget. Luckily my DD was ok but if anything would have happened I don't know what I wouldve done.

Anyone else have anything like this happen?
Posted by Anonymous on May. 7, 2012 at 10:55 PM
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Tesserae
by Mrs.Mellark on May. 7, 2012 at 10:56 PM

he left her alone in the house all day?

MIA0223
by Emerald Member on May. 7, 2012 at 10:57 PM
He left her in the crib all day in the house alone?
Wow!
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melakay1981
by Platinum Member on May. 7, 2012 at 10:58 PM

Was he sleeping all day or did he leave her home alone all day?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on May. 7, 2012 at 10:59 PM

Are you saying he left your dd home alone and forgot she was there? Or he didn't even bother with her the whole time? Wow....

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on May. 7, 2012 at 10:59 PM
Oh my gosh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


What the hell?!???

I can see why you have trouble with that. I am not sure how you will be able to again but good luck.
areyouatroll
by on May. 7, 2012 at 11:01 PM
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I would've divorced him.
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method209
by Silver Member on May. 7, 2012 at 11:01 PM
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I would never be able to trust him again. I don't know if I could stay with him if that ever happened with us. I hope everything works out for you.
areyouatroll
by on May. 7, 2012 at 11:02 PM
I have no idea how you could trust him. Honestly Wtf.
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Melinda32
by Bronze Member on May. 7, 2012 at 11:03 PM
Bump
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PurpleGlitter84
by on May. 7, 2012 at 11:04 PM
I wouldn't have had children with someone so iresponsible
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