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I hate that my husband won't change.

Anonymous
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I love this man, why can't he wake up and see that? See how badly he is fucking up his life?
I am living in a shelter now since I left. Since I left our lease is up and he didn't find a place so he is sleeping in his car. He parks somewhere that has wifi, sits on his phone on his fucking chat site. That's the reason I left. He became addicted. He spent a ton of money we don't have keeping his chat room, getting his nickname a different color, sending money to people so they can do the same, lost his job, stoppe showering or paying any attention to our kids. To me.
Once again, I get an email our checking account is over drawn. Went to log in to the online banking and he has changed the password!
I want to cry. I need closure. I need to know what causes him to just not care what happens to his family.
He thinks he will come with me when I get income based housing and live.
It's not going to happen. I am moving on. I am going to provide and have a great life but I still want to know why? I need the closure.
Posted by Anonymous on May. 8, 2012 at 8:41 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on May. 8, 2012 at 9:01 AM
BUMP!
pigtail
by on May. 8, 2012 at 9:02 AM

{{{hugs}}}

LatashaNicole
by on May. 8, 2012 at 9:04 AM
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Wow I'm speechless that is so sad hope you get back up&never ever let him put you in the kids in that type of situation ever again.
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edelweiss23
by on May. 8, 2012 at 9:18 AM
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Take your name off the account. Then he will be responsible for the debt.
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GirlWithANikon
by Platinum Member on May. 8, 2012 at 9:19 AM
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Addicts are usually really depressed and hurting about something inside, just lost and disconnected. Then they find something that makes them feel connected and thats the addiction.

Can you try getting him into therapy or something? Cna you get his friends or fam to help?

marie85
by Gold Member on May. 8, 2012 at 9:19 AM
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You might never know why. I am so sorry. :(.

twohearts0810
by on May. 8, 2012 at 9:21 AM
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I would cut all ties and move on. Good luck :)
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JDmommyJD
by the sauce is boss on May. 8, 2012 at 9:21 AM
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 He needs therapy. Addiction can consume ones life. And yes you can be addicted to more than drugs and alcohol. Sad. Feel bad for you mama :(

Sylv.the.Wine-O
by on May. 8, 2012 at 9:21 AM


Quoting edelweiss23:

Take your name off the account. Then he will be responsible for the debt.


Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on May. 8, 2012 at 9:22 AM
That won't make a difference. If the debt was acquired when they were married its shared debt. Hugs my dh was chatting at one point and it turned our marriage and life upside down. Thankfully he stepped back into reality and we are working on our marriage. Good luck hon.

Quoting edelweiss23:

Take your name off the account. Then he will be responsible for the debt.
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