My friend Nicole, who is white, has been with Jay, who is black, for over a year now. They just recently moved into a condo together with Nicole's 2 kids. Nicole has been feeling neglected by Jay lately & when she brings up the fact that he never gives her compliments Jay tells her that giving compliments is a white guy thing.
I beg to differ with him. I am white & I have had several black guys compliment me! So it can't be a white guy thing, right? IDK maybe I'm wrong here, but I think any guy who is proud of his woman & wants to make her feel special is very capable of giving compliments- not matter what the race.
So why would he say something like this? Do you think he is just not one of those guys that gives compliments?