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Do you think it's ok to Date and have Sex with others while Separated and heading for divorce?

Anonymous
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Question: Do you think it's ok to Date and have Sex with others while Separated and heading for divorce?

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Yes, I think it's ok.

No, I think it's wrong.


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Total Votes: 28

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Some states have waiting periods for divorce up to 2 years.

Posted by Anonymous on May. 8, 2012 at 11:35 PM
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Survivor6388
by on May. 8, 2012 at 11:37 PM

As long as both parties agree it's okay it's okay.

Venae
by on May. 8, 2012 at 11:37 PM
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No, because you're married.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on May. 8, 2012 at 11:39 PM
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The longest waiting period i have heard of is 6 months... the divorce itself may take longer if contested. My divorce took 18 months due to custody disagreements. But i waited til divorce was finalized. In my opinion until it is final, you are married and there is always a chance you may decide to work things out. Plus i believe you need to give yourself time to heal before jumping into another relationship.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on May. 8, 2012 at 11:39 PM

Exactly.  I'm not legally divorced yet but been separated from my ex for a while.  I'm dating this new guy and my stbxh knows, he doesn't give a damn as long as the guy treats me and our kids right.

Quoting Survivor6388:

As long as both parties agree it's okay it's okay.


kaysha
by Ruby Member on May. 8, 2012 at 11:39 PM
Yes because your not "with" the stbx.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on May. 8, 2012 at 11:39 PM

there's already a post identical to this one. I guess it needed to be done again

shortcakes13
by Silver Member on May. 8, 2012 at 11:39 PM
it depends on the situation...if both parties agree then I see nothing wrong with it...
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on May. 8, 2012 at 11:40 PM
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NO it isn't alright.It's adultery.

CplusG
by Silver Member on May. 8, 2012 at 11:41 PM
I wouldn't of met my wonderful dh had I waited around for my xh to sign the papers.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on May. 8, 2012 at 11:42 PM

I was in an abusive marriage, and my current husband was the one to get me out.  We slept together before the divorce finalized, but there wasn't a snowball's chance in HELL of me working it out with the ex.  I felt guilty about it because I was raised in a Christian home, but sometimes those urges take over, ya know?

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