I caught porn on Dh's computer again. I have set an ultimatetum that if I see it again, I am gone. (this is the 5th time! and I have begged and begged him to stop) It is very hurtful to me, yes I have self esteem issues. BUT It would NOT bother me to the point of leaving if he actually had sex with me more than once every few weeks!
But I watch it on occasion. ( like once every few weeks) not fair I know but I don't EVER get mine, no matter how much I beg/tease. I can literally blow him and he still wont want sex. So I say fine, wait for him to go to work and take care of myself anyways.
So I caught it on the computer again, when he had 5 minutes to himself! and I am telling him tonight either he is leaving or I am.
(this is not the only issue,he has little respect for my wishes/concers/wants while I bend over backwards to make him happy except for on this issue. We have watched porn together, no problem, it's the sneaky shit I hate. Tonight was just the dealbreaker for me)