Ok not really but I told him he needs to have a goal. He brings home $3,200 a month and has no Aspirations for something better. He needs to always be working towards something. He hates his job and is always grouchy. He also has 2 kids and I told him that I'm tired of going to the second hand stores for clothing. I want them to have the best and if he's not going to provide the best I will leave. I don't think I'm in the wrong because I will work with him and if I see that he's atleast trying I wont leave but I had to light a fire under his ass or nothing would ever change.
I want him to further his career with training and a degree. I don't want to barely scrape by anymore. I want him to have a goal. This isn't something that has to happen right away.
I am going to school I have plans for my life and if I'm not happy I'm gonna do something about it not just complain!