Okay...I've been talking to one guy since I've had my baby. My son is 8 months. We've been getting really close but we haven't had sex. We've actually decided to wait a while because we really want to be in a relationship and don't want sex to ruin things if we have it too soon. Anyways...yesterday we took the first step and exchanged photos. As in explicit photos..yea say what you want but I was curious about his size it was just another way for us to be intimate without being physically intimate KWIM? Well, I was SO disappointed! Ugh! It was small! Like seriously little! I can't settle down and marry man with a small penis! I would be miserable. I'm not going to throw in the towel just yet, once we have sex that will determine if I stay or leave. Am I being unreasonable? Shallow? Wwyd? Sex is important to me in a relationship and I've gone SOO long without it!