My confession: I think too many women cry wolf when it comes to domestic abuse. So many women on here claim their husbands abuse them by being controlling/mean/etc then try to tell their husbands what to do, call him names, hit/slap him, tear him down, and then cry wolf when he retaliates. There are women being seriously abused everyday and people don't take them seriously because of all the overly dramatic women who claim abuse that isn't there. Everytime I hear another woman complaining about her "abusive, controlling husband" I wonder if they are really being abused or just being dramatic for sympathy. Sometimes abuse is very black and white and sometimes it isn't so clear. From what I've read women post, many of you would be considered controlling and abusive by your own definitions. Stop with the double standards. Crying wolf makes t harder for real abuse victims. If you hit your man and he hits you back he isn't being abusive (in most cases). There's always exceptions but most things can be twisted into what you want it to be. So many women on here jump to the divorce route over the dumbest shit on here. No wonder so many of you are divorced! According to you Most men are terrible abusive men. How hypocritical!!! I know real abuse victims and it's horribly offensive when women claim abuse just to get out of a marriage. I don't really care if I offend people with this. I read enough on this site to make me sick. I care about my marriage, I forgive my husband when he makes mistakes, and I have no intention on divorcing him if he doesn't help me around the house or wants to play a fucking video game or look at porn!! I probably won't reply o this because I'll actually be taking care of my children instead of playing on here all day.