This past saturday I found out that a few months ago he confided our problems in a girl at work (the girls whose house he goes to on sundays) and they kissed AT WORK. He didnt tell me about it until I read his text messages and found a ton of dirty messages that he sent to her. He did appoligize and say that they both instantly agreed that is was a mistake. He even cried when he was telling me and we both cried for the next 48 hours.
I am feeling angry, upset, betrayed, furious, frustrated and a little guilty (because we were having problems at the time). I really do love him and I do have 2 young children with him. I really want to make this work but I have never been so hurt in my entire life. How do I get over this? I desperately need some advice. Thank you!