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I've been married for 4yrs and 1 yr into the marriage, I discovered I didn't truly love him and I should not have married him. Now we are both very unhappy, we sleep in seperate rooms and can go without having sex for 6 to 8 weeks. We cannot even seem to cohabit peacefully, always quarrelling. We tried counselling but I cannot seem to love and care for him the way I should. And its breaking my heart and making me quite bitter. I just turned 30 and it dawned on me that I'm too young to stay this way for the rest of my life. We have a 3 yr old, I'm worried what this will do to her. Our parents too have been asking we work things out but I've reached my wit's end. Do you think I should go ahead and get a divorce?! I need advice please
thank you so much ladies your advice. id certainly make a decision soon. i'd keep u ladies posted.