I see these post's/replies where these SAHM's do not cook or do hardley any cleaning. Its not like you dont have the time. I work 40 plus hrs a week sometimes. Me and dh both work nights and i still get the house clean, do dishes, wash AND fold clothes and put them away, cook breakfast, lunch AND early dinner to put in our lunch boxes for supper. And i still have plenty of time to play with my ds after he wakes up at 7 am. So i dont see how some of the moms on here have no time. Then there are the ones that just flat out refuse to cook or clean or even take care of your kids. Your SO/BF/DH works hard and you exspect him to do your job too when he gets home from work, thats just being lazy.... Get off your butts and start taking care of your family or get a job! Oh and btw my dh cooks sometimes too and hes better at it then me, but as a mom/wife i feel complete knowing im keeping my boys fed and healthy!