That's what my MIL told me today. I was irritated because DH stays in the garage all day, does NOT come in to help me with the children at all unless I complain. I work crazy hours and am exhausted when I get home yet I clean, cook and get the kids in bed. On my days off I do it all. When I'm at work he is in the garage and my brother and his gf are caring for the children if they aren't in school. So today I say "dh, are you going to come in and help me get the house clean and the kids ready for bed?" He got pissed because I was asking too much. So I got mad and said he needed to start acting like a parent or move on. Mil thinks I'm just a bitch and I need to respect dh and let him act the way he wants because of course, its the womans job to care for the house, kids and everything else. I would be all for that if he got off his lazy ass and got a damn job! Am I in the wrong????