So I think DH is having an emotional fair. I think this is the root of my insecurities lately.
- He talks to this girl more than he talks to me
- He defends her all the time
- He will call her on his lunch breaks but not me
- He pretty much txts her all the time
- I have found messages from him and her saying each other is sexy, and they should play strippoker
- He tries to hide his conversations with her, clicking off the page, deleting messages etc.
- He abuses me when I ask who he's texting/calling
- He admitted ina drunken argument that he flirts with her.
- He accused me of cheating (as if)
- They are old school friends
- She is a known cheater.
On the other hand she lives about 20hrs away. However the more he talks to her, the less sex we have, the less time he spends with baby etc. What are your opinions (and don't just say leave).I've tried talking with him already...