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my neighbor accused me of being an escort or hooker

weve lived in our new house for 6 weeks. ive spoken with 3 neighbors the whole time. im almost 8 months pregnant and my df has been offshore the whole time (since morning after unloading uhaul)

well theyve seen me come and go all the time leave early in morning return between 6 and 10pm.

i seen one of the kids that was coming over frequently to play with ds (i don know which neighbors kid it is) and i asked why she hadnt come over lately (shs maybe six or seven) and she said because mom thinks your an escort and said she doesnt want us around that. (theres NO WAY this kid new what that was)

my df just got home wednesday, other than my moms car or truck there have been no other vehicles at my house the whole time!

i didnt know what to say soo i just laughed an said absolutely not.

i dont know what to do! any idas?

ETA: APPARENTLY THIS MADE FEATURE POST 12 HOURS AGO (1030AM) IVE BEEN AT FAMILY FUNCTION WITH DF ALL DAY SO I JUST FOUND THIS OUT...IM TRYING TO REPLY TO YALL I AM! BUT IT WILL TAKE ME SOME TIME!

ok....while reading ive seen the same question numerous times..so to clear it up

1. i dont know which kids belong to which houses..yet. so i dont know who the mom is that said this


2. i wear makeup ONLY on sundays going tO CHURCH


3. i dont wear shorts, skirts, capri's or gauchos and rarely ever wear tank tops...im almost always in jeans, tshirt and flip flops with my hair in a bun
FOR WORK-I wear maternity jeans, steel toed boots, and a mechanics uniform top, w/ name of my company AND my name.

 

4. im a 219lb 5'5 8 mo pregnant woman, so sexy,hot, provocativ, and drop dead gorgeous are not things i would say about myself, im nothing to be jealous of.  I come home covered in grease/oil 5 days a week!


5. i work outside of home monday thru friday 730am to 530pm ( i manage a mechanic shop), plus 1 hours drive time there and back..i run a part time business outside of home( It works! Body wraps and supplements.. home parties.. NOT at MY home), and train people once a week on how to coupon (we meet at the local pizza hut. NOT my house)


6. ive only met 3 neighbors, 1 complained about my grass needin cut the morning after we moved in, 1 came looking for their kid, 1 asked if i wanted to go n on an ad in the paper for garage sales.

 

7. My DF works offshore in the oil industry, he operates ROV's, pretty much, he plays with robots, under the ocean, for a living.. mostly in foreign countries, he works 4-6 weeks offshore, and comes home for 2-4 weeks, then goes back out.

8. My 4yr old ds is with me 4 out of 5 mornings when I leave for work and he's with me all weekend long every other week. I have my OWN vehicle, and I DO NOT get rides from coworkers. I do, however, work with 5 guys, NO girls.

 

ok, I believe I got thru everything.. SOME OF YOU HAD ME AND MY DF CRACKING UP! he seems to think this is hilarious. I am going to find out WHICH house the lil girl belongs to and try to get to the bottom of this. I have until the 21st for DF to help me with this, otherwise it will have to wait until he gets home again (he'll be gone for 4 weeks starting may 21st)

I think I answered everyones questions to the best of my ability... the 8 most common questions are answered ABOVE ^^^^

THANK YOU ALL for your kind words.. I DID speak about this to my DF and got his opinion.... along with both his parents.. who ALSO find it Hilarious!!
 

Mom to Tucker Wayne~ May 2008 & Owen Mabry ~ DUE July 19th.  STBwife to Troy~ Sept 8, 2012.  Itworks body wrap rep~ NONextreme Couponer and trainer~ Christian~Pro-Life~Nonpolitical~Believes your choices for your children, are YOUR choices, Not mine.

by on May. 12, 2012 at 8:53 AM
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blessedbundle
by on May. 12, 2012 at 11:19 PM
1 mom liked this
1-800-CHOKE-THAT-H*E
jillmamck
by on May. 12, 2012 at 11:20 PM

File sexual harassment charges, invasion of privacy....do not let people get away with slander!angry

jessi2girls
by Ruby Member on May. 12, 2012 at 11:22 PM


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Wow, that's a pretty big leap.. I'm assuming she has other reasons to jump to her conclusion though, other than just the times you are there or not.. perhaps you dress provocatively in her eyes, wear too much make up, or something like that that could have made her jump to that conclusion?

wow.... she's EIGHT months pregnant!

That's like syaing a eoman hwo's raped deserved it if she wasn't fully covered from neck to ankle.

SMMFH thanks for setting the female gender back 100 years! 

You make me SICK

wow, you really need to learn how to type first off!

Secondly, it is in NO WAY like saying (btw, this is how you type it appropriately), a woman who has been raped, deserved it if she wasn't fully covered.

Thirdly, I didn't say her assuming she was an escort for ANY reason was okay! I simply was pointing out that there are probably other reasons, even innocent, that probably  lead her to jump to her conclusion other than her being gone most of the day.

Nor did I say I agreed with her neighbor for jumping to that conclusion!

You my dear, are just as bad as her neighbor!

So it's allllllllllllllllllllllll the clothes and makeups fault? 

Did I say it was aALLLLLL the clothes and make ups fault? No, I using them as examples of why the neighbor may have jumped to the conclusion she had. That is why it was possed as a question. But is clear you missed that part, and assumed I was instead accusing her rather than asking if there were other things that could have prompted the neighbor to jump to the conclusion she had.

BTW, how am I JUST as bad as the neighbor? *I* didn't ASSume that the OP dresses INappropriately, or wears too much make-up.... YOU did that. YOU ASSumed that.I didn't ASSume that either, I asked if there were other reasons WHY the neighbor could have jumped to the conclusion she did and gave some examples of why some women would jump to such a conclusion.. YOU however ASSumed a WHOLE lot of shit about what I wrote that was NEVER part of what I was saying. So yes, that makes you about just as bad as her neighbor!

And don't act like YOU never ever made a typo.... that shows you have ZERO argument for what you said. You're a disgusting human beingI never said I never had a typo, but that wasn't one typo.. that was an entire POST filled with typo's that made it difficult to read.   

Finding me disgusting.. really? for asking the OP a question?   Wow, you really have some issues!

Go back to elementary school and learn basic English classes, and then seek a therapist for anger management, you clearly need help and have NO idea what the hell you are talking about!


TWO. TWO typos does not equal a post full.

You're an IDIOT

Three, learn to count before you call someone and idiot dear!

and secondly, again, I'm not the one who doesn't know what a question mark means, and flies off the handle because I don't understand basic reading comprehension skills.. better check the mirror before calling someone else an idiot!

Have a great night, but quit wasting my time with your dramatics.

Again, that's ALL you had to go on, because you had zero right to say what you did to the OP. Her dress or make-up wouldn't make her an escort any more than an ounce of class would make you a lady.

Wow, you really are stupid!

I again, didn't say her dress or make up would make her an escort, I ASKED her if her make up or clothes or WHATEVER, could make someone jump to that conclusion about her.  RIGHTLY OR WRONGLY SO!

My freaking GOSH you seriously have NO idea what a freaking question mark is do you? Opps, I just used one, bet you can't figure out what that means now can you!

Seriously, you need to just stop typing, you just keep getting dumber and dumber!

luvme2teazu
by Member on May. 12, 2012 at 11:24 PM

Good one put out the red lightbulb just for kicks


Quoting AnnieMcD:

Call all of your male friends and have them stand in line outside of your house holding numbered tickets, and let one in and one out every half hour for an afternoon. :o) 


Aslen
by Ruby Member on May. 12, 2012 at 11:29 PM


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Quoting jessi2girls:

Wow, that's a pretty big leap.. I'm assuming she has other reasons to jump to her conclusion though, other than just the times you are there or not.. perhaps you dress provocatively in her eyes, wear too much make up, or something like that that could have made her jump to that conclusion?

wow.... she's EIGHT months pregnant!

That's like syaing a eoman hwo's raped deserved it if she wasn't fully covered from neck to ankle.

SMMFH thanks for setting the female gender back 100 years! 

You make me SICK

wow, you really need to learn how to type first off!

Secondly, it is in NO WAY like saying (btw, this is how you type it appropriately), a woman who has been raped, deserved it if she wasn't fully covered.

Thirdly, I didn't say her assuming she was an escort for ANY reason was okay! I simply was pointing out that there are probably other reasons, even innocent, that probably  lead her to jump to her conclusion other than her being gone most of the day.

Nor did I say I agreed with her neighbor for jumping to that conclusion!

You my dear, are just as bad as her neighbor!

So it's allllllllllllllllllllllll the clothes and makeups fault? 

Did I say it was aALLLLLL the clothes and make ups fault? No, I using them as examples of why the neighbor may have jumped to the conclusion she had. That is why it was possed as a question. But is clear you missed that part, and assumed I was instead accusing her rather than asking if there were other things that could have prompted the neighbor to jump to the conclusion she had.

BTW, how am I JUST as bad as the neighbor? *I* didn't ASSume that the OP dresses INappropriately, or wears too much make-up.... YOU did that. YOU ASSumed that.I didn't ASSume that either, I asked if there were other reasons WHY the neighbor could have jumped to the conclusion she did and gave some examples of why some women would jump to such a conclusion.. YOU however ASSumed a WHOLE lot of shit about what I wrote that was NEVER part of what I was saying. So yes, that makes you about just as bad as her neighbor!

And don't act like YOU never ever made a typo.... that shows you have ZERO argument for what you said. You're a disgusting human beingI never said I never had a typo, but that wasn't one typo.. that was an entire POST filled with typo's that made it difficult to read.   

Finding me disgusting.. really? for asking the OP a question?   Wow, you really have some issues!

Go back to elementary school and learn basic English classes, and then seek a therapist for anger management, you clearly need help and have NO idea what the hell you are talking about!


TWO. TWO typos does not equal a post full.

You're an IDIOT

Three, learn to count before you call someone and idiot dear!

and secondly, again, I'm not the one who doesn't know what a question mark means, and flies off the handle because I don't understand basic reading comprehension skills.. better check the mirror before calling someone else an idiot!

Have a great night, but quit wasting my time with your dramatics.

Again, that's ALL you had to go on, because you had zero right to say what you did to the OP. Her dress or make-up wouldn't make her an escort any more than an ounce of class would make you a lady.

Wow, you really are stupid!

I again, didn't say her dress or make up would make her an escort, I ASKED her if her make up or clothes or WHATEVER, could make someone jump to that conclusion about her.  RIGHTLY OR WRONGLY SO!

My freaking GOSH you seriously have NO idea what a freaking question mark is do you? Opps, I just used one, bet you can't figure out what that means now can you!

Seriously, you need to just stop typing, you just keep getting dumber and dumber!

LMAO I'm dumber? You're the one that set feminism back 50 years with your "questions" 

Your "questions" were little more than cheap shots at the OP, becaue only someone as stupid as YOU would even presume to ask a question like that. You have no class, you have NOTHING to go on, other than three typos. See, ( and I'll make sure to use small words) your "questions" somehow imply that it's the OP's fault that the neighbor ASSumed (like YOU did) that she was an "escort". You didn't come here to offer ANY support, only to be a stark raving CUNT. That's why you asked your "qestions".

Now, we can do this all night long, or you can take your outdated and bitchy attiudes and go elsewhere. 

Most of us are PROGRESSIVE people, and have no time for you.

Me? I could ALWAYS use a new plaything... and you're it :)



3.ang3ls
by on May. 12, 2012 at 11:30 PM
She probably came up with the ridiculous idea because she DIDN'T see any men there and was trying to figure out how you afford the place on your own. That.....and she watches too much tv. ;). Not to worry. It's people like her that are just jealous. Lol.
redhead-bedhead
by on May. 12, 2012 at 11:33 PM
I just read all the replies and some had me belly laughing.
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jshalas89
by on May. 12, 2012 at 11:34 PM
Ha! What a nosey ass, assuming broad. Idky neighbor WOMAN are like that. Seriously tell her to get a life or maybe become one herself since clearly she has nothing better to do.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 14 on May. 12, 2012 at 11:35 PM

They must be bored with their lives and have to be all in yours. Dont let them run you out of your home eather. Id just tel them to mind their own biss.

NiceMom06
by Gold Member on May. 12, 2012 at 11:48 PM
I'm so sorry.

Quoting susan115:

Go confront the woman.  My neighbor hates me.  I have a child with a disablity it might be contagious.  The first day I moved in, the neightbors can over my baby was asleep on my shoulder, she woke up and turned her head.  My neighbor stopped talking and took a couple of steps back.  Never talked to me after that.

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