Judging Large Families

[Anonymous]

How many people judge large families? Honestly you might not say it outloud but you might just think some things suchs as: They have to be on PA. She should use BC. They all don't share the same father.

For those who judge or have thought those things check this video out:

http://abcnews.go.com/WhatWouldYouDo/t/video/mom-harassed-irresponsible-16331378&tab=9482930§ion=11268487&playlist=16331600

[JoLee12345]

Same father soon to be six kids, no pa, against bc

[CrazyLife1996]

We have 8 children. 4 are mine and my husband, 3 are my brothers that we have custody of and our last is an ex-friends son who we also have custody of.

We are TTC number 9 and we have talked about having 3 more.

[Tesserae]

I don't want to watch your video nor do I care to judge large families.

[JoLee12345]

Quoting Anonymous:

how do you figure that? We are having our sixth and we give each child a mommy daddy day aline twice a month. I am a sahm and manage to love and nurture each equally and we are very close! I think you might be jealous that you lack patience and the capabilities to be a good mother to many!

[PhoenixsMommy10]

I think, "Dang that's a lot of kids....I'd hate to buy their groceries."

I only judge if the kids always look nasty or not taken care of (but I do that no matter how large or small the family).

[JaimieLynn8]

I judge when people keep having children when they clearly shouldn't. Regardless of size.
I love the Duggars & don't judge them....because they can provide for their kids & are great parents.

[Anonymous]

If you say so I said 7+ ...u honesty mean to tell me that broad w 21 kids gives EACH one the individual attention a child needs???????? Ur argument is irrelevant

Quoting JoLee12345:

Quoting Anonymous:

how do you figure that? We are having our sixth and we give each child a mommy daddy day aline twice a month. I am a sahm and manage to love and nurture each equally and we are very close! I think you might be jealous that you lack patience and the capabilities to be a good mother to many!

[Supervane]

Judge no, but I'll be honest I don't have many friends with.more than 2 kids, more because they avoid us..they just don't seem to get why I only want and have.1 child. Probably wouldn't have much in common...

[JoLee12345]

Quoting Anonymous:

that broad is a wonderful Christian woman who wouldn't look down on you for being a bitch! And yes! They do very well at loving and nurturing each child! I think people like you, are simply incapable of being less selfish and simply couldn't give the attention needed due to your own personal wants and so called needs! But go on insulting people you know nothing about!

[JaimieLynn8]

Lol. So when women have sick babies, they shouldn't have any more??
When Mrs Duggar was pregnant with Josie, their youngest who was born premature (their "sick" baby), she developed pre-eclampsia which can happen to any woman, no matter how many pregnancies you've had. That complicated her health so badly that they had to deliver Josie to save their lives. The baby was sick because she was born so early, not her age.

What does it matter how many kids they have? They are well taken care of right? But because they pass some invisible limit of kids a couple should have then they must have psychological problems??
And they're overpopulating...? So do you think we should, as a country, set a limit to the number of children we can have? Like china?

Quoting Anonymous:

I think there just over populating the world...that 21 kids n.counting lady sickens she just keeps having babies even.after they are starting to.come out very sick..its like ur body is done hunny give it a rest....octomom.even worse sometimes I wonder if their is an underlying psychological problem