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More Than One Birth Father Is Trashy

Posted by on May. 12, 2012 at 9:28 AM
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I actually had someone tell me this the other day.

My 7 year old twins are not my DH's (biologically....but in every other way, they are his) and DH and I have a DD together. We were at the park and someone commented on how different my twins look than my DD. I said that DD favor's my husband more than me and the twins favor me more. The lady then pipped up and said that DS doesn't look like me that much, to which my sister told her that they have different birth father's than my youngest DD. The lady looked at me all disgusted and said "Well, that's just trashy.

My twins will be 8 in July, DD will be 3 in August. There is exactly 5 years, 1 month and 1 day between the twins (who are boy/girl) and YDD. I don't think they look that different, do you?



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by on May. 12, 2012 at 9:28 AM
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momto2girls89
by on May. 12, 2012 at 9:31 AM
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The girls look alike to me. I would have told that c**t that putting her big nose in my business and opening her fat mouth is trashy. For all she knows your twins' dad died.
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WrapNLoseInches
by on May. 12, 2012 at 9:33 AM
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lol well that lady has obviously never had the luxury of going thru a divorce or becoming wiidowed. id have told her where to sit and spin.
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wittyscreenname
by on May. 12, 2012 at 9:34 AM

The girls both have dark hair and their skin isn't as fair as my son's. He has fair skin and light hair.

This is DH and I

YDD DOES look a lot like him and the twins have blue eyes where she has hazel.

murrlicious
by on May. 12, 2012 at 9:36 AM
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Nope and they do not look trashy they look adorable. And obviously that person has never been in a long term relationship with the wrong guy.
ShesALady
by on May. 12, 2012 at 9:36 AM
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She's just ignorant
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LyTe684
by Ruby Member on May. 12, 2012 at 9:36 AM
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Hi!!!!!!! I remember you. They all got so big! Adorable. How are you?
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on May. 12, 2012 at 9:37 AM
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more than one birth father is trashy imo

PhoenixsMommy10
by Gold Member on May. 12, 2012 at 9:37 AM
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I thought this was your opinion, and I was ready to jump all over you for calling my mom trashy...lol

Your kids honestly don't look THAT different. I have nieces that have the same parents but look nothing alike.
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ARmomOf3
by on May. 12, 2012 at 9:38 AM

they all look similar to me. my kids look nothing alike at all. what a C***that woman was. she doesnt know your situation or WHY you had different biodads :(

beaularson91
by Ruby Member on May. 12, 2012 at 9:39 AM

WOW i feel pissed on your behalf oh how i would have snapped! my son has a half brother out there that i gave up for adoption she doesnt know your situation and has no place to pass judgement now if it was like my first sons father who has 6 kids with 5 women and had me and one of the other girls pregnant at the same time then yes i would agree having more is trashy but i seriously doubt thats your case

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