He put me our my kids (one is his) out on our asses. I have a 4yr old (prev rela) and our 4 month old.
He's a loser.
Anyway, he has somewhere to live, we didn't, until last night.
I've been going through hell. I'm going into transitional housing to teach me how to be independent again. I was a sahm. :(
Well, a few days aho...dh took our daughter to visit...we agreed shed be back by 5pm on Thursday. That morning he told me I can't have her, and ill hsve to go to court. Fuck.
I only pumped enough milk for the time he had her.
He was pretty much tellin me he refuses to let her eat.wtf?
I called the cops, they couldn't do anything.
I didn't sleep that night...worrying about her.
The next day, I weasled him into coming to get milk (winning!) And asked him to do me a favor and run to fax something...so he did.
After he left, I told him not to come back. And he freaked. Told me he'd get her whether it hurt me or not.
I called the police and wound up getting temp custody and a tro (court is next Friday)but I literally effed myself.
She has her last diaper on, he has her clothes, the rest of her diapers.
And I have her.
I don't have $ til TANF goes through.
Wtf do I do?