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I dont love my husband

Anonymous
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I hate my husband he expects me to:

Take care of the house from top to bottom
He works 8 hours a week with two days off
Have another baby while taken care of the two I already have and still keep up with everything(even if I am dying sick)
I do what he tells me to do and then if something goes wrong he tells me what is all wrong about me
He has been mad at me since we been married he wont have sex with me(only when he needs it), he yells at me daily, and if I don't have the house clean he wont talk to me or be nice
I haven't kissed him in 3 weeks
He watches porn all the time because hes made at me
I am just unhappy and I tell myself daily that I don't want to be married to him.
He doesn't take care of himself at all. If I have anything to say he always makes me cry and blamesme for my own feelings. He told me that I can either be financial supported by him or have nothing at all because he doesn't want to give me his emotional side.
We never can talk about anything
When ever we go out, he gets mad at me for no reason.

Posted by Anonymous on May. 12, 2012 at 11:02 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on May. 12, 2012 at 11:05 PM

I hate my kids and I don't ever want to take care of them because I am always depressed because my husband is always telling me I need to grow up. I don't eat because I throw up every time I try to cook and he doesn't care. He tells me he cares about me but doesn't show it, and I just don't have no where to go and I feel like things well get better. I just hate being unhappy.

jrfan4evermom
by Member on May. 12, 2012 at 11:07 PM

I'm sorry you feel this way! But if you aren't happy with him is there anywhere you can go to get out of there? You dont deserve to live in unhappiness........

jrfan4evermom
by Member on May. 12, 2012 at 11:08 PM
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You seriously hate your kids? How can you say something like that?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on May. 12, 2012 at 11:10 PM


Quoting jrfan4evermom:

I'm sorry you feel this way! But if you aren't happy with him is there anywhere you can go to get out of there? You dont deserve to live in unhappiness........


I have no where to go. My family stays to far away.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on May. 12, 2012 at 11:12 PM


Quoting jrfan4evermom:

You seriously hate your kids? How can you say something like that?


because I am trapped, he made me have the kids! I never wanted to have babies until we got fixed because we loved each other at one point. but he wouldn't let me use bc, so I had no choice

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on May. 12, 2012 at 11:12 PM
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jrfan4evermom
by Member on May. 12, 2012 at 11:19 PM
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Well if you didnt want babies and you couldnt use birth control then you shouldnt have had sex!!! Your babies dont deserve a mom that "hates" them. Give them up to someone that wants to love them the way they deserve and leave your husband. I was simpathetic to you until you said you hate your kids............... There are many many people in this world that cant have babies and would love to take yours on as their own!!!!

blondie805
by on May. 12, 2012 at 11:20 PM
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First of all, lady, you are better than this. A man does not need to "make" you cry. If he does, then,  he needs to get over himself. I don't know why you are attached to him. He sounds like he has problems within himself. Take a break. Leave for a while. You don't have to divorce him just take a break from him. Let yourself see that you can either be happy without him or be miserable without him. He needs to see that too. The porn needs to go. I have an old movie that my husband and I watched together. It's called "Fireproof". I highly suggest that movie. It even addresses the porn issue. Be firm with him and tell him that you want a break from him or get counseling. If he's not willing to work on the marriage, then, honey, I am sorry but, you may have to face that nasty d word--divorce. Either way, you will get some answers and as the Bible says--"The truth shall set you free".  Stop killing yourself and start loving yourself the way that God loves you and the way you love your kids. In the meantime, keep us posted on how you are doing. Prayers and Hugs!

FL2AK
by on May. 12, 2012 at 11:21 PM
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Time to quit being a victim and take control of your life. I am finding it hard to believe that he made you get pregnant.
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lovelove211
by Platinum Member on May. 12, 2012 at 11:22 PM
I would leave him
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