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I dont love my husband

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I hate my husband he expects me to:

Take care of the house from top to bottom
He works 8 hours a week with two days off
Have another baby while taken care of the two I already have and still keep up with everything(even if I am dying sick)
I do what he tells me to do and then if something goes wrong he tells me what is all wrong about me
He has been mad at me since we been married he wont have sex with me(only when he needs it), he yells at me daily, and if I don't have the house clean he wont talk to me or be nice
I haven't kissed him in 3 weeks
He watches porn all the time because hes made at me
I am just unhappy and I tell myself daily that I don't want to be married to him.
He doesn't take care of himself at all. If I have anything to say he always makes me cry and blamesme for my own feelings. He told me that I can either be financial supported by him or have nothing at all because he doesn't want to give me his emotional side.
We never can talk about anything
When ever we go out, he gets mad at me for no reason.

Posted by Anonymous on May. 12, 2012 at 11:02 PM
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thesilvercord
by on May. 12, 2012 at 11:36 PM
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Ooooh, sweetie, from the view point of someone who grew up with parents like this, let me tell you, you need to get out. My mom felt trapped too, and she made the choice to stay with my father because they had me. And judging by the result of that choice, trust me, a healthy divorce is WAY better than an unhealthy marriage. Your children, and YOU, will be so much healthier and happier for it. I know you say you hate your kids, but is there no part of you that has love for them?

I know all too well what feeling trapped feels like. And let me tell you, you have so much more power than you realize. You may feel powerless, but you're not. Sounds like empty words until you realize just how true it is. Is there anyone in your area who could help you? A neighbor or a friend? Never be afraid to ask for help. It's a sign of strength, not weakness.

BellaMonster66
by on May. 12, 2012 at 11:37 PM

Is this post even REAL? cause someone wrote some crap early by someone "Anonymous" (which btw CM should get rid of in my opinion). I'm starting to think people write stuff just to get "a rise out of other people" and to what the last stupid post said "make CM interesting cause it gets boring". If this is a sick joke like the last person then you have no need to be on CM. Now if this is a real post, both your husband and you have issues that needs to be addressed in person and not over the internet but then again you probably already knew that. Seek help through counseling or just leave him.

Mama121807
by on May. 12, 2012 at 11:45 PM
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I sure hope not..

Quoting BellaMonster66:

Is this post even REAL? cause someone wrote some crap early by someone "Anonymous" (which btw CM should get rid of in my opinion). I'm starting to think people write stuff just to get "a rise out of other people" and to what the last stupid post said "make CM interesting cause it gets boring". If this is a sick joke like the last person then you have no need to be on CM. Now if this is a real post, both your husband and you have issues that needs to be addressed in person and not over the internet but then again you probably already knew that. Seek help through counseling or just leave him.


blondie805
by on May. 12, 2012 at 11:56 PM

I really don't think that you actually hate your kids. I think that you hate the situation you are in and your kids are only a piece of the puzzle that is making you miserable. You are depressed for more than your dh telling you that you need to grow up. If you want sympathy, then, unfortunately, you aren't getting a lot of it from me. Being unhappy is not just chemical or by choice. I strongly suggest that you find a way to get out of your house for a while by yourself. Try volunteering somewhere for one day a week. I'd try the local pregnancy center. Somewhere where there are alot of moms needing help. You can be useful in other places.

Quoting Anonymous:

I hate my kids and I don't ever want to take care of them because I am always depressed because my husband is always telling me I need to grow up. I don't eat because I throw up every time I try to cook and he doesn't care. He tells me he cares about me but doesn't show it, and I just don't have no where to go and I feel like things well get better. I just hate being unhappy.


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