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I would HATE to have a boy...

Posted by Anonymous

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I have 2 girls and I'm considering ttc but i don't want a boy. I have tons of nephews and boy cousins and I just do not like them. I know its bad to say about little kids but they are just so ick. They are loud, rough, gross, i just don't want that in my house. I know not all boys are like that but it sure seems like the boys in my family are! and if the my boy(hypothetically) is around my nephews and cousins then he will probably end up like them. I like my girly princesses. They like to play and get dirty but in moderation. My nephews and cousins just take it too far.

Today we had a cookout at my cousin's house. The kids were playing with a ball that shoots water out at them. The boys were jumping on it, slamming in to mud puddles and spitting water on everyone. They would stop when told but then they would just find something else to get in to.

I would love to have a 3rd little girl but I just don't think I can handle a boy. I know this isn't a majority of opinion and will be bashed from some boy mommies. I don't hate your sons. promise. i just don't want any of my own.

Posted by Anonymous on May. 13, 2012 at 5:24 PM

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momof4boyz1girl

Platinum Member on May. 13, 2012 at 5:25 PM

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You are definitely right about the gross part......I have four boys and I know firsthand.

goodmama85

Mommy Of 3 on May. 13, 2012 at 5:26 PM

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So what happens if you end up with a boy are you gonna abort him????

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MamaBear2cubs

Nikki on May. 13, 2012 at 5:26 PM

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Well 50/50 lol. I hate to say this but my son is not nearly as bad and boyish as my daughter lol.

CreziaMommyTo2

Gold Member on May. 13, 2012 at 5:26 PM

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ok.

kathislove80

Katherine on May. 13, 2012 at 5:26 PM

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Aww...I love my little boy.

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champagne_rose

on May. 13, 2012 at 5:27 PM

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Quoting kathislove80:

Aww...I love my little boy.

Same here:)

by Anonymous on May. 13, 2012 at 5:27 PM

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Troll or very stupid.

ktinaza

Gold Member on May. 13, 2012 at 5:27 PM

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I do have two sweet boys. I felt like you at first and then had my first boy and then was pregnant a couple years later and now have a 5 month old boy. I really don't think its boy or girl its personality. I have seen awesome little boys and little girls that are brats. I think its how you raise your child boy or girl.

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xomrs.chase

Ruby Member on May. 13, 2012 at 5:27 PM

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Lol wait until your princesses are teens...

With boys, you only have to worry about ONE. With girls... You have to worry about them ALL!!! (Catch my drift? Lol)

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