My sister and I have never really been close, but its been getting better the past few months. She lives 6 hours away but we normally talk everyday on FB. I sent her a mothers day card and she never called or anything to wish me a happy Mothers day. It really didnt bother me. But then I kind of had a break down when she messaged me on fb, just bc of everything thats going on. I have severe depression, and absolutely NO ONE to help with the kids. Usually My Gma helps me outwhen she can but shes been on vacation. So everythings been 10xs worse. I told my sister yesterday how I cant do this by myself anymore and I dont even know howto deal with everything, completely alone. She was like what are you talking about? What are you doing alone? There is no breakdowns when you have kids, how can you feel like that? Your kids should make you happy every single day, and they shouldbe your reason not to be depressed.
I dont get how she can say that, seeing as she has her in laws, my mom, her DF, my brother. And I have no one up here except my Grandparents who hhavebeen on vacation for a few months, and wont be home for 3 more weeks. She has 1 child whom is healthy. I have 2 children one with special needs. I dont understand how she can just say my life should be happy, perfect and zippity dooo daaaa. I dont know, now I feel like all the progress we made in the last few months is gone. I am back to resenting her, and not wanting to make it work.
Im not going to go into detail why we didnt get along for so long, bc I dontwant anyone to judge that situation now. I want opinions/advice on how to deal with this specific situation. Just keep an open mind in knowing shes reallly hurt me in the past.