thinking of cheating

[Anonymous]

I really want to cheat on my BF we don't have the best relationship we are together mostly for the kids he even says that. I have this guy friend I refuse to be around him alone because I know something would happen. I love my bf but he doesn't talk to me I we have sex up to 2 times a week and I haven't finished in 2 months I sqiurt and he loves it and knows that's how I finish so he knows I haven't finished in a while
This other guy it's more then sex I know he loves me and I could love him but it's complicated I wanted to have an open relationship he said no he'd try to show me how he feels and we talked about sex nothings changed....idk what to do I'm thinkin of just cheating

I know I'm horrible

[Lyssa0587]

Why don't you just break up with him first...that way there is no cheating involved. 

[Anonymous]

Break up with him if you are that unhappy. Don't shred his heart just do you can get laid.

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

It's weird I don't want to break up with him and if I try he'll promise to show/do more....he is a good dad he wants to live with our kids but he won't do any family activities he doesn't show me anything everything we do is for the kids we love eachother normally I'm contant with just him

[newmommy52012]

I agree with these two. There's no point in cheating if you don't have to...I hate cheaters.

[newmommy52012]

Well actually you should never HAVE to cheat.

[Anonymous]

It still is not an excuse to step out of your relationship. Everyone gets hurt in the process.

Quoting Anonymous:

It's weird I don't want to break up with him and if I try he'll promise to show/do more....he is a good dad he wants to live with our kids but he won't do any family activities he doesn't show me anything everything we do is for the kids we love eachother normally I'm contant with just him

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

I'm not saying I'm going to I know I shouldn't I just can't stop thinking of the other guy I don't know how to talk to SO about this but idk how to go about it idk what to do

I know there is no excuse to cheating I just don't know what to do

[hip2it]

...is it still a committed relationship if one is thinking of nailing a friend?

Honest question.

[Amanda52007]

This doesn't make any sense:

he is a good dad he wants to live with our kids but he won't do any family activities

[IWannaLoveAgain]

Why dont you just leave him instead of creating all this drama? Wouldn't it be easier to leave and be with who you want to be with rather than cheat on your boyfriend?