Do you have adult kids you visit or do your moms come stay with you
I visit my daughter and stay over night, I never help out with cleaning or dishes. Is this wrong? I am not a pig or make messes but I'm not there to clean her place, I cleaned up after her her whole life and when she stays at home she is as lazy as can be. So I just show her how it's like, to have someone come, dirty some dishes and bath towels and leave.