Ok, Christian Pro Lifers...explain this one... (edited with correction)
My friend and her husband of been TTC for the last 10 years. Nothing has worked. So they are thinking of getting a surrogate. Fine whatever but what I dont get is that they are both VOCAL Pro Life. Their biggest answer to this debate is give the baby up for adoption. This couple will not even consider adoption. Their reason is because the baby would not be theirs. I just dont get it. They are well off, not rich but better off then most upper middle class families. They could give some poor child a really awesome home but instead are (IMO) throwing that money away. If they are such Christians, why dont they listen to God's obvious choice in this matter. Can someone explain this to me? I want to say something to them but I know it would be considered rude so I don't because its their choice. But I do think it is completely wrong.