He thinks I will cheat...

[Anonymous]

I love having sex with Dh but I gave him some suggestions on new things we can try to spice things up. Apparently, he thinks these "ideas" will lead me to cheat. First of all, I would NEVER cheat or hurt him that way. Second, is it too hard to atleast TRY some of the things I suggested?!? And to be clear, I didn't ask for anything gross or to have another person join in. One of the things I asked him to do is FINGER me. Ugh. I am so hurt that he thinks I would even consider cheating...I just want to get out of this funky routine we are in... :( what to do??

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

Bump

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

Bump

[Anonymous]

Has he ever fingered you?  It's just shocking that you have to even ask your own husband to.  I mean, that's one of my husband's favorite things to do....It reminds him of when we were first dating lol.

[JustCJ]

Lmao wow tell him I said he's a lame ass.

[Anonymous]

Agreed. This is like, a given for us everytime we are together.

Quoting Anonymous:

Has he ever fingered you?  It's just shocking that you have to even ask your own husband to.  I mean, that's one of my husband's favorite things to do....It reminds him of when we were first dating lol.

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

He has maybe once and I don't really care if he does or doesn't...it just bothered me that he came up with the pathetic conclusion of me cheating due to me asking him to do it.../: if that makes sense...lol

Quoting Anonymous:

Has he ever fingered you?  It's just shocking that you have to even ask your own husband to.  I mean, that's one of my husband's favorite things to do....It reminds him of when we were first dating lol.

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

He's such a prude...

Quoting JustCJ:

Lmao wow tell him I said he's a lame ass.

[momoftwo0406]

Wow that kinda odd to me if he thinks fingering would make you cheat I"m gonna guess your sex life is very simple and to the point. How long have you been married? Are you his first? Is he you first?

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

We have been married 4 yrs. I was his first. I had previous sex partners...and yes, our sex life is pretty much sweet and to the point. Lol

Quoting momoftwo0406:

Wow that kinda odd to me if he thinks fingering would make you cheat I"m gonna guess your sex life is very simple and to the point. How long have you been married? Are you his first? Is he you first?

[hollydaze1974]

Sooo, you get a little bored, wanna spice things up and suddenly you'll cheat when typically it's the boredom that causes cheating. Bummer, sounds like a little ego boost is needed for him or something . Idk, that's a new excuse for not wanting to please your wife