I love having sex with Dh but I gave him some suggestions on new things we can try to spice things up. Apparently, he thinks these "ideas" will lead me to cheat. First of all, I would NEVER cheat or hurt him that way. Second, is it too hard to atleast TRY some of the things I suggested?!? And to be clear, I didn't ask for anything gross or to have another person join in. One of the things I asked him to do is FINGER me. Ugh. I am so hurt that he thinks I would even consider cheating...I just want to get out of this funky routine we are in... :( what to do??