My head is spinning right now after finding out that they guy I've been dating for over a month now was arrested for domestic disorderly and domestic vandalism and come to find out it happened after our second date. I can understand his apprehension about telling me but WTF. A friend showed me the online court record so I called him up and asked what the hell was going on. He told me that his ex-girlfriend had come to his place three weeks ago and they got into an argument and his neighbors called the police. He told me he was sorry and that he didn't know how to tell me because of how bad it looked. There wasn't any assault charges but still. We talk often and see each other every weekend and one night during the week. I have a hard time trusting people and this has totally crushed me. I'm just looking for advice.