SO has been out of a job and has desperately been looking.. on top of that helping watch our LO during the day. With one vehicle and crappy phone service to get on the internet.. he is limited. Well MIL has been without a job for 2 years.. sits on her lazy smelly ass all day watching T.V. and screwing around on the internet. Since she has to contribute to rent and utilities.. she has to get a job or she'll be living out of her car. She some how managed to find a program that will pay her way for college and provide a certain amount of money for living.. how she found something like that I have damn idea!! She had an interview a few weeks ago.. well guess what.. the lucky bitch got it. How she got it.. I don't know.. the place must be desperate.
I've never liked the woman.. I've put up with her attitude, her mouth and her disgusting smell all for my SO. He has been super depressed about not being able to find a job and the bitch calls/texts him daily about a place she found that she is applying for, has an interview or had a call from. Not to be like "Hey, call this place or it's better to go in" or anything. Just to throw it in his face.. not only that but that she started her on-line college this week.
Today she calls him knowing that he has a shit ton of things to accomplish all to tell him that she landed a job.. and not just that she got a job.. but how much she will be making.. what her schedule will be like and how it works with her "school". SO calls me pissed the fuck off.. he has many times expressed to her that he is happy that she going to school.. that she is actually putting an effort into finding a job.. but to please not throw it in his face. She rolls her eyes and whatever and tells him to man up. WTF?! I'd be pissed and asking for that simple request too if my BM or SM were doing the same thing.
He convinced me to allow her to watch our LO when we were both working.. it took a lot of convincing. I had enough and told him that she was no longer watching our LO with some things that were going on. When she first started coming to the house she lived about 20 minutes away.. she said that she didn't want an outrageous amount of money.. just enough to cover gas. Well she has a descent car that has awesome mileage so I figure $10 at most is fine. She could eat/drink just about anything in the house as long as it obviously wasn't for the baby. She could watch T.V., movies.. whatever. Well SO told me anywhere from $10-$20 a day was fine. She watched LO 3 days a week and the bitch made out with nearly $80 a week from me and would still complain. After a few weeks she moved a little closer.. so I bumped it to only $10 a day.. it would take weeks for her to use a full tank of gas for back and forth. She bitched at that!!! You're spending time with your Grandchild.. sit on your ass and eat me out of house and home and leave the place a pigsty and my LO disgusting by the time I got home.. be thankful I am giving you anything!!
So now I am fed up with the lady and want her out of my life. SO basically wants nothing to do with her right now. Which I understand. Oh wow.. speaking of which.. she's calling me right now while I'm at work and she knows that! (I'm on lunch break.)