I wouldnt have married you either...

[briellesmomma]

Okay now that I got your attention.

Did you have sex more before you got married or after you got married?

I see some of you complain a lot about sex during pregnancy, you not wanting to have sex because you just don't feel like it etc, etc.

And I am just curious what the pattern was. I always think that you do all that great stuff when youre in a relationship to snag your prize and then when you are married you stop trying, hence why some of you probably stop having sex with your husbands (not including people with low sex drives or impotent husbands).

Now I could be wrong. Thats why Im asking.

[Northcuttswifey]

Eh its stayed the same. LOTS Lol

[LucyHarper]

After, since I didn't have sex until I was married.

[TexasWife]

After. lol.

[Anonymous]

We didn't have sex before marriage. We were wedding night virgins. Been married over a decade and still have sex a minimum of 3x a week, up to 7x a week.

[MIA0223]

Maybe that's why that area has never had any issues, lol.
7 years married, and we waited for marriage!

[PartiallyNormal]

I had sex (all with DH) exactly nine times before getting married. I think we did it at least 12 times in the first two days of our honeymoon.

[Kylie819]

Before :(

I have a severe back injury so that has interfered with our sex life at times :/

[windsails]

dh and i had more sex before we got married, i don't know why that happened, maybe because there was more security there after marriage and didn't feel the need to have to have sex all the time, plus in my case, as i get older my sex drive is not what it used to be, maybe because i had a hysterectomy back when i was 34, who knows?

[briellesmomma]

Quoting Kylie819:

Before :(

I have a severe back injury so that has interfered with our sex life at times :/

Aww that sucks!!

Is it something that in time will heal?

[briellesmomma]

Quoting windsails:

dh and i had more sex before we got married, i don't know why that happened, maybe because there was more security there after marriage and didn't feel the need to have to have sex all the time, plus in my case, as i get older my sex drive is not what it used to be, maybe because i had a hysterectomy back when i was 34, who knows?

Wow that so young! Was it your choice (if you dont mind me asking of course?)