I have been done for the past year and the four previous years we worked on our marriage(counseling, dates, talking) it makes me sick that we have waisted the last 5 years being unhappy. He will not admit he's unhappy and he tells me he likes the fact that I'm such a bitch?
I get the feeling he's afraid to call it quits because even though I'm horrible to be around I'm the only woman he's ever been with and he's afraid to be alone.
I think he also is afraid of what his family would think of him. They are always involved when making a decision that should be between him and I.
I'm not in a position to leaveand why should I have to? This is my house as much as it is his. so I tried talking to him and told him ill stay in the spare room but he just ignores me and say we should try counseling again. Im tired of counseling I'm tired of him.
**I'm done why can't he see that?**