my bf does HAVE a job, a good job too, he is just depressed and it makes it hard for him to function. we were both depressed with other issues since childhood and we've been spending the past few years together trying to fix eachother and ourselves,and healing from fucked up childhoods, we have come a long long way, i just wish we couldve done all this healing and such without our kids bc i have missed so much of their little lives and still have so much work to do.. i have tried every pill out there they have made me violent, comatose, etc. i have been a sahm for 3yrs now, i worked pt before.. but i want my 2nd baby to have the sahm benefits my older one does.. he is very smart because i taught him all that stuff! so don't bash me! i made mistakes that had good intentions behind them and i don't want to run off and go clubbing, i just want some sanity and peace and want to be a happy active good mom instead of being buried by mental illness.. and i have a therapist i have since i was 4 and im well versed in psych but nothing has helped..
thanks to those who had supportive things to say!