After a super fun day of school parties that i attended, and then taking her to the park afterwards, i asked her to get her room clean and wash up for dinner. She looked at me and said "No" hmm..okay.. Several minutes later she asked for a plate of food, and i looked at her and said "No". If it isnt clean by bed time tonight then i guess she isnt eating!
*update- The room is now clean, her hands are washed, and she is now sitting down at the table eating dinner. Thanks :)