Let me make sure I've gotten this right.
If I have had a miscarriage at a point in a pregnancy I am not a mother?
Explain this one to me then:
I miscarried at 2 1/2months, however due to what the doctors believed was a hormone flux she measured 4 1/2 months. She came out 'breathing' for 2 minutes before passing away before my eyes. In that moment I felt like a mom, I felt like a mom who's whole world had collapsed, yet can you honestly say I was not a mother at that point?
I have a live 6 month old now, but my Angel Baby (who would be 3 now) will always be my first in my heart, and I will always be her mom no matter where she is.
Why is it so hard to believe a person is a mother whether they deliver a live baby or not?
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