I love my husband, he is the kindest most amazing man I know.
but I am NOT sexually attracted to him. at all. in fact the thought of sex with him grosses me out kind of...
see the thing is he was my best friend for over 8 years, and he has always been there for me. for a long time he was in the "friend zone" because he is fat. but after years of meeting stupid guy after stupid guy, I realized he was the one for me, and it didnt matter what he looked like. I get along with him way better than anyone i've ever met. he used to be 450 pounds. then he lost 150 pounds after getting a surgery. he keeps eating pizza and hasnt lost any more weight after the 150. I feel bad because I love him so much, and I want to want to have sex with him, and I want to be sexually attracted to him. but seriously when we try to have sex he crushes me, and i just cannot be turned on by that. Idk what to do.
anyone else have this problem?