MY SKid's BM chooses her DH over them..SSons are MAD at their mom!!
So my step kidss (of 8 yrs) Bio Mother has decided to move 3 hours away to live with her DH's father since her DH got fired from his job & sadly lost his house :-/ last week ...Now we are here with all 3 kids, VERY HAPPY & NOT COMPLAINING at all....BUT the problem is that my SS got into a physical fight with his step brother (at BM's house) last week...the step father kicks BM and (my) 3 skids out of the house after dark...makes her take the old wrecked car that barely runs...knowing full well that she will drive about an hour away to her moms house & the car will have problems all the way there...OH & to top it off...he reaches in and takes out the radio from the car so they have nothing to listen to.
Guess what...she went back & helped move everything out of the house less than 36 hours later! They are in love again!! WOW!! This is the 5th or 6th time something simular has happened since she has been with THIS husband!!...Yes this is probably the 12th~ish time she has been in a "Serious relationship" in the past 8 yrs....like live with a guy relationship.... ummhmm
We are at a loss...she is choosing to be with DH again... homeless, jobless, telling the kids she is moving them 3 hours away from my DH (daddy) they currently reside with us 50% of the time....WHAT DO WE DO?????
SSon says "My mom is the most selfish mom anyone could have" they are hurt...she has the choice to stay with any of her family...they have always supported her everytime she comes back between relationships. The kids feel like she is choosing "A MAN" again over them. My Sdaughter says to me "Mom...I tried to tell her how much we cant stand him and that she should be married to someone that loves her, not a guy that throws her out of the house everytime she stands up for herself!"
Ugh....I feel sad...& all 3 SKids are young teens!!